1. I seem to be way better at - or perhaps more deeply committed to - allowing others to be who they are than I am at/to allowing myself to be who I am.
2. Whoa,
Curt Smith from Tears for Fears did a song with Melissa Kaplan of Splashdown. I thought at first I didn't like it, but it keeps getting stuck in my head and I keep going back to listen to it. I also love the story of a fan suggesting they work together, him contacting her, and her not believing at first that he is who he says he is.