So why do i love my my?

[alosarkoebera]

I was asked this by someone the other day and I decided I would post something about it now I guess. First off most all of you know I give a crap about how someone looks yes? Looks are the last thing on my mind when I am looking for someone to love, since the first thing that matters to me most is the fact that they have a brain. Yeah I LOVE A GUY

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[indigo_the_cat]

I would normally agree with you, but everyone in my family has some sort of a brain (little sister is still working on it) but everyone having full personalities in one household and high minds can raise the roof with arguing and disagreement.

There are times, when I wished I wasn't born into prestige.

I have better opportunities and damage control (like I'll ever need the latter, I never do anything outside of visiting friends and shopping), but after awhile, you wonder why it even matters.

But then again, there has never been a divorce on any side or part of my family, extended included. Maybe that means once someone gets in, they don't want out? Even my cousin who couldn't even get a job beyond pizza delivery has worked out a ton with his girlfriend he moved from MN to Arizona to be with. Maybe we know how to find people who fit in with us?

However it works, I'm the black sheep, purple carrot, and oddity in my family due to my homosexuality and interest in furries. I would have been the second, but my cousin of my father's side died many years ago from AIDS in California. So, I'm the only one in my extended and immediate family.

Sorry, heh. What I'm trying to say, is big personalities are nice, but don't always reveal true character and intent. I try to be honest and open as much as I can (and not bringing up topics that are trouble) but even I can't reveal everything even with my best effort. Each individual must be studied and observed over time.

From teh mate

[indigo_the_cat]

Yes, big personalities can be a bad thing when the gene pool decides to share the wealth with your entire household, and there have been some pretty explosive arguements in my household, but we don't have "big" personalities if by that you mean big egos to go with them. The four of us are rather self-contained, actually, even around each other sometimes. All we've ever HAD is each other, over the years, when we didn't even have a roof over our heads. Plus we're the only people in our family we can rely on. The rest are redneck hicks, and with two homos in my family, they don't exactly like us. We're an extremely close family, because we know we can rely on one another and trust one another. I guess we've all got abandonment issues, and we've each got our little quirks, but all in all, we're good people.
Anyways, sorry for the little ramble, just wanted to clear that up.