If you analyze the messages behind the literature, art, song, cinema, and prose dealing with love, society sends a schitzophrenic message about how to deal with it
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--"Love is hard work"--> Even having a good chance/connection at all <--"Can't make someone love you"
You are talking to each extreme of the same point of contact. The effort, the interest, the build-up, the courtship. That's the working toward love part. The understanding part. The wisdom here is not to give up before you see out the possibility.
The "Can't Make it Happen" part is after. Its the point of contact that doesn't naturally sustain. The dynamic is one of continued effort and continued desire. Its about the imbalance when one person in a relationship stop trying or trying as much as the other. Due to interest issues, inner demons, or other external forces.
Its all one messy ball. So find the source. Explore the edges of it. If any part of the cause of these issues isn't something you can grow from and be comfortable with - time for change. Either on the inside, or the outside environment - if its not good something needs it (change). People are very unique, I can't tell you truth for you. Just reasons why it might be.
--"Love is hard work"--> Even having a good chance/connection at all <--"Can't make someone love you"
You are talking to each extreme of the same point of contact. The effort, the interest, the build-up, the courtship. That's the working toward love part. The understanding part. The wisdom here is not to give up before you see out the possibility.
The "Can't Make it Happen" part is after. Its the point of contact that doesn't naturally sustain. The dynamic is one of continued effort and continued desire. Its about the imbalance when one person in a relationship stop trying or trying as much as the other. Due to interest issues, inner demons, or other external forces.
Its all one messy ball. So find the source. Explore the edges of it. If any part of the cause of these issues isn't something you can grow from and be comfortable with - time for change. Either on the inside, or the outside environment - if its not good something needs it (change). People are very unique, I can't tell you truth for you. Just reasons why it might be.
Good luck.
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