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Just a few thoughts:
How is it possible for a person to like someone soooo much, but yet that other person doesn't feel the same way back? They obviously have had to have spent the exact same time together, shared the same moments, same conversations, etc - But yet it's highly unlikely for both to feel the same about each other.
No matter how many times a person can learn a certain lesson, they always manage to make some of the same mistakes again anyway.
Have you ever noticed, that when you're in love and you get that wonderful feeling inside (The one that lets you know that yes, you are in love) it's the same feeling you get when someone breaks your heart, only it has a totally different effect on you? Think about that one for a while, 'cuz I've found it to be true.
If you like someone, there's no use trying to get them to like you. Be yourself, and if it was meant to be, then it'll happen. Otherwise you wind up doing or saying things you normally wouldn't, and once that person realizes that that's not who you are, you're most likely gonna get ditched anyway. Besides, you don't want someone who doen't like you for you.
When you're in love and the person you're in love with leaves you, there is nothing that can make you feel any better or make you forget any faster. People might say that you should see other people, but when you're truly in love, that is pointless. For example, if I got dumped and Wes Bently (The hottest guy ever) came up to me and asked to be my new boyfriend, I would have to decline because I would still be thinking about the person I'm in love with. Going out and taking your mind off of them works only for the time being, but there is the chance of spotting something to remind you of them, and once the distraction is over, you go right back to sulking. I know when your heart is broken you feel like nothing besides that one person can make you feel any better or help you get over your depression, but I speak from experience when I say, Time does heal all wounds. You won't believe it when you're going through it, but it holds true.
Ok, you may be wondering why I put all that up there, but it's just stuff I've been thinking about lately. Not necessarily stuff I'm going through right now, but stuff that I know some of my friends are, or stuff I've been through and have been pondering. I know I haven't updated in a while, but though there is a lot to write about, I haven't wanted to type it all out.
Sean and I got back together around the day I got home from Stevens last semester. (Did I call that or what?) I was going to take the semester off, but I didn't want to be a bum, so I'm taking classes at Ocean County College, (It's like 6th grade all over again! Is there no medium to this college madness?) and in about a year I'm probably going to transfer to NJIT or something. I'm still working at Emilio's, and I applied for a bartending job at a strip club nearby. :) hehe. The guy said he's gonna call me next week. We'll see about that. Right now I'm working to pay off all my Stevens Debts, going to classes 2 days a week, and spending the rest of my time with Sean - and sometimes Dave, Gerard, and Pat (and of course they're respective girlfriends). All my guy friends suddenly acquired girlfriends, and it seems to have affected our social life, as a group. Everyone wants to spend time alone with their 'bitch', and Sean and I are left with each other. If we weren't going out, we would probably have been forced into it anyway seeing as we would be the only 2 left that hadn't paired off.
Well, I'm off to bed. Work tomorrow, and Hoobastank concert on Monday night. sweeeeeeeet! BTW- saw Super Troopers last night. Laughed my ass off. I highly reccomend seeing it soon.
How is it possible for a person to like someone soooo much, but yet that other person doesn't feel the same way back? They obviously have had to have spent the exact same time together, shared the same moments, same conversations, etc - But yet it's highly unlikely for both to feel the same about each other.
No matter how many times a person can learn a certain lesson, they always manage to make some of the same mistakes again anyway.
Have you ever noticed, that when you're in love and you get that wonderful feeling inside (The one that lets you know that yes, you are in love) it's the same feeling you get when someone breaks your heart, only it has a totally different effect on you? Think about that one for a while, 'cuz I've found it to be true.
If you like someone, there's no use trying to get them to like you. Be yourself, and if it was meant to be, then it'll happen. Otherwise you wind up doing or saying things you normally wouldn't, and once that person realizes that that's not who you are, you're most likely gonna get ditched anyway. Besides, you don't want someone who doen't like you for you.
When you're in love and the person you're in love with leaves you, there is nothing that can make you feel any better or make you forget any faster. People might say that you should see other people, but when you're truly in love, that is pointless. For example, if I got dumped and Wes Bently (The hottest guy ever) came up to me and asked to be my new boyfriend, I would have to decline because I would still be thinking about the person I'm in love with. Going out and taking your mind off of them works only for the time being, but there is the chance of spotting something to remind you of them, and once the distraction is over, you go right back to sulking. I know when your heart is broken you feel like nothing besides that one person can make you feel any better or help you get over your depression, but I speak from experience when I say, Time does heal all wounds. You won't believe it when you're going through it, but it holds true.
Ok, you may be wondering why I put all that up there, but it's just stuff I've been thinking about lately. Not necessarily stuff I'm going through right now, but stuff that I know some of my friends are, or stuff I've been through and have been pondering. I know I haven't updated in a while, but though there is a lot to write about, I haven't wanted to type it all out.
Sean and I got back together around the day I got home from Stevens last semester. (Did I call that or what?) I was going to take the semester off, but I didn't want to be a bum, so I'm taking classes at Ocean County College, (It's like 6th grade all over again! Is there no medium to this college madness?) and in about a year I'm probably going to transfer to NJIT or something. I'm still working at Emilio's, and I applied for a bartending job at a strip club nearby. :) hehe. The guy said he's gonna call me next week. We'll see about that. Right now I'm working to pay off all my Stevens Debts, going to classes 2 days a week, and spending the rest of my time with Sean - and sometimes Dave, Gerard, and Pat (and of course they're respective girlfriends). All my guy friends suddenly acquired girlfriends, and it seems to have affected our social life, as a group. Everyone wants to spend time alone with their 'bitch', and Sean and I are left with each other. If we weren't going out, we would probably have been forced into it anyway seeing as we would be the only 2 left that hadn't paired off.
Well, I'm off to bed. Work tomorrow, and Hoobastank concert on Monday night. sweeeeeeeet! BTW- saw Super Troopers last night. Laughed my ass off. I highly reccomend seeing it soon.