get some perspective
anonymous
January 19 2005, 06:38:51 UTC
sorry couldn't get through the lines too busy.... a lot of people have issues with you hayley, you need help and i'm serious. your hurting people around you and your putting my friends through hell as well. Yes your allowed to hurt over all of this no ones taking away that right but your manipulating people into being your friends and guilt tripping others....not only that but you've hurt fenton by posting that message. People had loving memories of good times they shared with him and now you've destroyed that for some. Yes he wrote those words but he shouldn't be remembered for them. You've discredited his emotions by exploiting them to get revenge...hurting people with his words and not because your doing it for his benefit but because your being selfish and doing it for your own. why couldn't you instead post about what a great guy he was and how his warped sense of humour and compassion gave cause for all his friends to smile. Instead you keep talking about the people you blame and how this whole ordeal has gotten you out of your finals....get some perspective and see whats really important. I'll admit i don't know him really at all but i thought i knew you from back in high school, you used to be funny and spontaneous adn you wouldn't wallow in self pity...you'd be there for others when they needed you...you were there for me when i was in grade seven and couldn't make many friends. please go and see a counsellor or something before you get swallowed by human rot and despite what you'll post afterwards, i do care....about what happens to you and what has happened to fenton, everyone does. So don't hurt anyone anymore and don't feel sorry for yourself or say what a horrible person you are because that's not going to change anything....
Re: get some perspectivealloluvJanuary 22 2005, 01:46:29 UTC
he was mu boyfriend my love my fucking life and none of you know what happened in the last two months of his death but him and i so stop. i can have issues and i do and this is my way of exressing myself, i could just hang myself on the wall, but its been done... so yeah you and everyone else knows nothing.. so run along little one...
Re: get some perspective
anonymous
January 27 2005, 18:11:49 UTC
Erinna, If you had known him, maybe your comments would be valid - but you did not and they are not!!! Of course Hayley needs some help - her best friend committed suicide and her other so called friends are blaming her and treating her like shit!
why couldn't you instead post about what a great guy he was and how his warped sense of humour and compassion gave cause for all his friends to smile. Instead you keep talking about the people you blame and how this whole ordeal has gotten you out of your finals....get some perspective and see whats really important.
I'll admit i don't know him really at all but i thought i knew you from back in high school, you used to be funny and spontaneous adn you wouldn't wallow in self pity...you'd be there for others when they needed you...you were there for me when i was in grade seven and couldn't make many friends.
please go and see a counsellor or something before you get swallowed by human rot and despite what you'll post afterwards, i do care....about what happens to you and what has happened to fenton, everyone does. So don't hurt anyone anymore and don't feel sorry for yourself or say what a horrible person you are because that's not going to change anything....
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