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Nov 04, 2009 17:16

I'm so sick of living in this house ( Read more... )

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Re: Ah darn! anonymous November 10 2009, 01:29:47 UTC


I think your reply raised more questions than it answered. And I'm sure you are "thrilled" about that.

I was thinking you were moving to Flint from Swartz Creek. And I looked it up and The Creek is in Flint Township but I was thinking you were moving to the city of Flint.

I'm glad you are going back to school....and I think you need to as I believe you need to reapply yourself to some goals. I believe you operate better when you have something to shoot for and I would not bet against you accomplishing something when you are motivated......especially seeing as you are just a tad brighter than the rest of us. But whatever happened to the radiation therapy at Wayne State or Baker? That sounded pretty set in stone.

I swear you change directions more than Barry Sanders used to. And quicker too! DAMN! LOL

This is the first that I have heard of a worry about Arthritis. I'm wondering if these pains have been going on for awhile or has it been since you were on those meds? I'm just wondering if it may be a side effect from those?

I thought you were too young to have arthritis...but looked that up too....and nope. Lots of research tonight between The Creek and Arthritis from your short reply!

I know you are going through Hell right now. I can't imagine what it must be like for you. Maybe moving out is the right thing. Maybe it isn't. Just whatever you decide, decide it with your head and not your emotions. You'll make the correct decision if you do it in a calm, well thought out manner vs a rash one.

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Re: Ah darn! allfiredup86 November 16 2009, 21:15:19 UTC
I talked to the people at UMFlint, and they think I've got a shot at getting into their program. It's cheaper, and it's closer, so it was definitely worth looking into.

I'm all over the place, haha, I can't help it.

The pains have been going on for quite awhile, actually. Started a couple of years ago, but they're getting bad enough now that I hurt every single day until I get moving around, and even then, I hurt. The doctor is apparently completely unconcerned, tho...she even offered to run the test, and it doesn't look like she did. Guess I'll be going back in a bit to ask her specifically about the arthritis...I'm too young to hurt that bad.

If I were being rash, I'd be out already. It isn't a good idea for me to base my decision on my family..otherwise, I'll never get out of here. They'll always need me, but they can get by without me, too. I just feel like I'm being taken advantage of, and no one seems to care. Not to mention that I cannot get away from my father, and he isn't taking the hint that my silence means I'm biting back yet another smart ass comment or retort because he's driving me crazy.

I just want to be left alone, mostly.

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Re: Ah darn! anonymous November 18 2009, 02:22:07 UTC

I'd say U of M Flint is just a tad closer than Wayne State which would have been a commute from Hell. I am so hoping this works out for you too! I thought it was a good idea when you dropped out of school recently because your head and your heart were not in it. But I am so for you going back to school if they are and your head is right. You are too intelligent to not go back to school and if you ever apply yourself you will prove me right on how smart I say you are.....which is pretty freaking smart.

You gotta go to MSU to know stuff like that too. LOL

I had no idea about these pains going on for that long! Damn! I have always been achy and sore when waking up....and I mean ALWAYS. But not in any kind of pain, much less severe ones. You need to push you doctor into checking that out. That is no way to live.

I guess I thought you may have been being rash because you were MIA for so long and I both hoped and assumed that your absence was because things were going better for you. So I was taken by surprise that they were not.

You gotta base your decison on what is right for you. Shandra is correct in that it might just improve the relationship with your parents....especially in your family's particular situation in dealing with your dad's illness. And it is not like you would be moving that far away so you may be more helpful to your family in a "less is more" kind of way. And I am sure you need your space and your pricvacy too.

I am hoping that you not being able to get away from your dad is something that is coming from a good place with him.....and I think it is. Knowing his time may be short I think he really feels guilt, remorse, and a sense of loss with you. Whatever the case you know he loves you and feels badly that he was not able to show it like he wanted and may regret that he was not able to do more for you. Holding back a biting comment is the thing to do. You don't want to think back on it years later and say to yourself "I wish I hadn't said that". You are doing the right thing by just letting things go.

Winds of change are blowing in the Creek these days. The Dragons broke their 22 year losing streak in football.....you just don't "mess" with the Dragons LOL......and I think things are gonna turn around for you too.

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