Maximum Strength
In the span of a short 10 hr shift i learned alot about love and how to stop being such a wad, I've totally reconsidered my love life at the moment and realized that im gonna be the one hurt if i keep going after him.
-If you can find him, then he can find you too, if he wants to find you he will.
Don't you want the guy who will foget about everything in his life before he forgets about you? Men are never too busy to get what they want and if they want you I guess they'll go after you, but if you just make yourself all available then he's always gonna get what he wants. Don't go taking his excuses for when he bails or doesn't call, you have feelings too. A rule to live by, no matter what the specail circumstances are (ie:excuses) are. It's not easy , but lets try and remember that the next incrediable hot guy we meet with the really good excuse is just another guy waiting to hurt our feelings, and man have i had my feelings hurt so much in the last year.
Like I get so fusterated when the guy I like says he's gonna call me later and yeah it never happens, if he's not calling you, it's because you're not on his mind. Don't be with someone that doesnt do what they say they're gonna do cause right now its just the little things that upset you, wait until something big comes about and he doesnt follow through then you're really going to be hurt. Don't take the "I was too busy excuse" Man that's pathetic, " Busy" is another word for ASSHOLE and ASSHOLE is another word for the guy you're dating. Why would you want to be with a guy that can't take 5 mins out of his day to pick up the phone and say hello how inconsiderate is that, if hes got time to walk around where ever hes got time to pick up the phone and talk while he walks like c'mon they're called cell phones or cordless phones, you dont have to be stuck in one place, theres even headsets so you're hands are free!!! Why should you be stuck getting the scraps of his time, a man who's really into you is going to want you all to himself and he'll know to shower you with the attention you deserve and need, and wont make lame excuses and all that bullshit.
Personally, when Im picking friends, and lovers, I like the ones that don't make me cry myself to sleep. Annnnnnd if at all possible, try to get to know someone as best as you can before you get naked with them. That just helps you out so much more in the future atleast you know what kinda guy you have to deal with, is he a crackhead, married, psycho, clingy?? Get to know who you're about to fuck!! Get to know what he wants, don't hop into bed thinking at the end you're gonna be a coup;e and live happilly ever after!! I don't wnat to be the girl thats " sorta dating" him or is " kinda hanging out" I want to be involved. I want to be sleeping with someone I know I'll be seeing again because they've already demonstrated to me that they're trustworthy and into me and not just in it for the sex, i dont want to be that girl. I want to be the cool girl that goes with the flow but knows what she's in for.
But the thing about the cool girl ( the unclingy i dont care what happens girl ) is that she too has feelings,they still get hurt. She has reactions to how she's being treated, she still hopes he calls. holds up the plans, wonders when shes gonna see him next, and she really wonders if he too is excited about being with her. Cool girls are just like every other girl they just keep it all bundled up in front of the guys but in her head shes all giddy and anxious and scared and hopeful, I wish guys were just more clear and then I'd know whether or not he liked me and then i could just be like hey fuck you if you dont like me tell me and quit leading me on and breaking my heart!
Guys do honestly tell you how they feel though, even if you refuse to listen to them or believe them, when they say " I don't want a relationship with you" it really does mean just that, they dont want to be with you. Plain and simple, they just want to be friends, fuck buddies, or hey maybe they dont even want anything to do with you you never really know unless you listen to what they say. Buuuuuut before you get all sad, there is a guy out there that wants to be with you so quit going after that hot shot bad boy, or the preppy little stud, go find the guy that is gonna adore you for who you are and not just use you. Companionship is great, but companionship with sex is even better. Call a spade a spade, or more fittingly a friend a friend, go find yourself a friend that cant keep his hands off of you! Then maybe that friendship will blossom into something better for both of you.
Now I've saved my favorite bitch for last ;
CHEATING
Cheating is bad! Not knowing why you cheated is even worse. A cheater only cheats himself, because he doesnt get to be with you ( if your smart and you dont stay with his cheating ass!!) Guys and girls cheat all the time cause they can and they'll keep doing it if you don't put an end to it. Cheating gets easier everytime its done. Its only hard the first time, cause thats when they feel most guilty and from then on its easy sailing cause they've done it once why not just keep going you're already a prick. If you're dating a bad boy or you like a bad boy theyre not really bad, theyre just troubled which makes them bad so it seems, but truly they just have little self respect, lots of built up anger, and lack of faith, and yeah cool sexy clothes, hot cars or bikes and are usually good in bed from being whoreish, but do you really want to be with some guy thats gonna be unfaithful and sleep with that girl that sits behind you or works with you or someone in your family? You wont like it when 9 months later your cousins knocked up with your ex boyfriends kid.
Im sick of chasing after guys, i want to just find someone to hang with that gets me and i dont have to get all crazy over i just want to have a good time and be happy and know im not gonna get hurt. Well more later gotta run.
-If you can find him, then he can find you too, if he wants to find you he will.
Don't you want the guy who will foget about everything in his life before he forgets about you? Men are never too busy to get what they want and if they want you I guess they'll go after you, but if you just make yourself all available then he's always gonna get what he wants. Don't go taking his excuses for when he bails or doesn't call, you have feelings too. A rule to live by, no matter what the specail circumstances are (ie:excuses) are. It's not easy , but lets try and remember that the next incrediable hot guy we meet with the really good excuse is just another guy waiting to hurt our feelings, and man have i had my feelings hurt so much in the last year.
Like I get so fusterated when the guy I like says he's gonna call me later and yeah it never happens, if he's not calling you, it's because you're not on his mind. Don't be with someone that doesnt do what they say they're gonna do cause right now its just the little things that upset you, wait until something big comes about and he doesnt follow through then you're really going to be hurt. Don't take the "I was too busy excuse" Man that's pathetic, " Busy" is another word for ASSHOLE and ASSHOLE is another word for the guy you're dating. Why would you want to be with a guy that can't take 5 mins out of his day to pick up the phone and say hello how inconsiderate is that, if hes got time to walk around where ever hes got time to pick up the phone and talk while he walks like c'mon they're called cell phones or cordless phones, you dont have to be stuck in one place, theres even headsets so you're hands are free!!! Why should you be stuck getting the scraps of his time, a man who's really into you is going to want you all to himself and he'll know to shower you with the attention you deserve and need, and wont make lame excuses and all that bullshit.
Personally, when Im picking friends, and lovers, I like the ones that don't make me cry myself to sleep. Annnnnnd if at all possible, try to get to know someone as best as you can before you get naked with them. That just helps you out so much more in the future atleast you know what kinda guy you have to deal with, is he a crackhead, married, psycho, clingy?? Get to know who you're about to fuck!! Get to know what he wants, don't hop into bed thinking at the end you're gonna be a coup;e and live happilly ever after!! I don't wnat to be the girl thats " sorta dating" him or is " kinda hanging out" I want to be involved. I want to be sleeping with someone I know I'll be seeing again because they've already demonstrated to me that they're trustworthy and into me and not just in it for the sex, i dont want to be that girl. I want to be the cool girl that goes with the flow but knows what she's in for.
But the thing about the cool girl ( the unclingy i dont care what happens girl ) is that she too has feelings,they still get hurt. She has reactions to how she's being treated, she still hopes he calls. holds up the plans, wonders when shes gonna see him next, and she really wonders if he too is excited about being with her. Cool girls are just like every other girl they just keep it all bundled up in front of the guys but in her head shes all giddy and anxious and scared and hopeful, I wish guys were just more clear and then I'd know whether or not he liked me and then i could just be like hey fuck you if you dont like me tell me and quit leading me on and breaking my heart!
Guys do honestly tell you how they feel though, even if you refuse to listen to them or believe them, when they say " I don't want a relationship with you" it really does mean just that, they dont want to be with you. Plain and simple, they just want to be friends, fuck buddies, or hey maybe they dont even want anything to do with you you never really know unless you listen to what they say. Buuuuuut before you get all sad, there is a guy out there that wants to be with you so quit going after that hot shot bad boy, or the preppy little stud, go find the guy that is gonna adore you for who you are and not just use you. Companionship is great, but companionship with sex is even better. Call a spade a spade, or more fittingly a friend a friend, go find yourself a friend that cant keep his hands off of you! Then maybe that friendship will blossom into something better for both of you.
Now I've saved my favorite bitch for last ;
CHEATING
Cheating is bad! Not knowing why you cheated is even worse. A cheater only cheats himself, because he doesnt get to be with you ( if your smart and you dont stay with his cheating ass!!) Guys and girls cheat all the time cause they can and they'll keep doing it if you don't put an end to it. Cheating gets easier everytime its done. Its only hard the first time, cause thats when they feel most guilty and from then on its easy sailing cause they've done it once why not just keep going you're already a prick. If you're dating a bad boy or you like a bad boy theyre not really bad, theyre just troubled which makes them bad so it seems, but truly they just have little self respect, lots of built up anger, and lack of faith, and yeah cool sexy clothes, hot cars or bikes and are usually good in bed from being whoreish, but do you really want to be with some guy thats gonna be unfaithful and sleep with that girl that sits behind you or works with you or someone in your family? You wont like it when 9 months later your cousins knocked up with your ex boyfriends kid.
Im sick of chasing after guys, i want to just find someone to hang with that gets me and i dont have to get all crazy over i just want to have a good time and be happy and know im not gonna get hurt. Well more later gotta run.