It sucks being the third wheel.
Dear Couplized People,
We, your friends, love it before you get the guy/girl. We listen to all your stories, we help you deal with your intense feelings, and help guide you in the right direction. Its a great time for us friends. When you finally couplize, thats great and fantastic, and we are so happy for you! We feel like we are right in your shoes, because we practically have been the entire time. Its a great time.
Its after the couplizing that things start to go awry. We're still your friends through and through, but the thing is, we always get pushed aside, or as i like to refer to it... Backseated. Its like, before you couplized, we were in the front seat of the car. After you couplize, we suddenly get pushed to the backseat (literally for me at one point. I went to go meet the other half, and was told to hit the backseat). Sometimes we even get put in the trunk. Only there when you need us and most of the time you forget we're there. It's not fair to us. We understand that you want to spend most if not all of your time with your other half, but honestly, we feel neglected.
We appreciate it when you make at least some time for us after the couplizing, but bringing your other half with you each time, especially when we really haven't gotten to know them and we really just need one-on-one time with you, can get really irritating and negates the sole purpose of the time spent between us.
Learn to put aside some time just for us, because, while you were pining over your guy/girl, we were there for you. Now we need you be there for us. Just a little time is all we ask for.
We love you. We really do. Thats why we tolerate being backseated for long periods of time.
Thanks,
Your Friends.
We, your friends, love it before you get the guy/girl. We listen to all your stories, we help you deal with your intense feelings, and help guide you in the right direction. Its a great time for us friends. When you finally couplize, thats great and fantastic, and we are so happy for you! We feel like we are right in your shoes, because we practically have been the entire time. Its a great time.
Its after the couplizing that things start to go awry. We're still your friends through and through, but the thing is, we always get pushed aside, or as i like to refer to it... Backseated. Its like, before you couplized, we were in the front seat of the car. After you couplize, we suddenly get pushed to the backseat (literally for me at one point. I went to go meet the other half, and was told to hit the backseat). Sometimes we even get put in the trunk. Only there when you need us and most of the time you forget we're there. It's not fair to us. We understand that you want to spend most if not all of your time with your other half, but honestly, we feel neglected.
We appreciate it when you make at least some time for us after the couplizing, but bringing your other half with you each time, especially when we really haven't gotten to know them and we really just need one-on-one time with you, can get really irritating and negates the sole purpose of the time spent between us.
Learn to put aside some time just for us, because, while you were pining over your guy/girl, we were there for you. Now we need you be there for us. Just a little time is all we ask for.
We love you. We really do. Thats why we tolerate being backseated for long periods of time.
Thanks,
Your Friends.