THIS IS AN EMO POST!
Ok, I lied. What? JooJoo? You are gonna talk about bishies here again??
This is all just random stuff I remembered feeling like posting, as I saw enelya87's entry about her pet peeves, one of which I shared.
EMO KIDS YELLING "WOE IS ME!!!!"
Yes, yes and freaking yes. I hate to remind people (everyone in my life, not just online) that the world doesn't revolve around them. I need to concede that this is not a restriction to anyone's freedom of speech or expression, but when someone rants, they should be able to expect a different POV into a matter which troubled them, and it might not be positive.
I know I complained this to codegal182, but one glaring example in my life is this sister of mine whom we shall call Ling for the time being. She was secretly dating a guy from a different religion (which, unfortunately, is rather taboo, I shall not speak too much into this) who was obviously taking her for granted. He has a girlfriend and planned to marry her but he went along to Ling's affection for him, leading her on. Because of him, dear sister started to ignore me, who's assigned as her "caretaker" because her college is close to where I'm staying now. She started to turn off her phone and spent unnecessary amount of time in the fcuktard's (oops!) room - for reasons I don't feel like imagining. Me and my other sisters were keeping those secret from my parents, since my father could be really bad at dealing with problems when he's mad, and my mom is a hopeless whiner who cries for trivial reasons. (I love them, but they drive me crazy when it comes to crisis) My sister broke up with the fcuktard some time later, but it didn't stop her from being persistently in love with him - or whatever she felt for him. Even now she still wants him, with full realization of what a dick he is. Moron.
Some time ago, I started ignoring Ling, because I can't bear to face her after everything I've done to her and I can't see her straight into the face and pretend that I love her after every moronic moves she pulled to lie to my parents and had us all (me and my other sisters) cover for her, without spilling what she had done. My other sisters tried convincing me to advise her instead, but she had not listened to me in the past, so my stressed self took an evasive approach and ignored her - which ended up badly. My parents started to question my hostility towards her (I can't blame them, it was awkward. I love Ling with all my heart and did everything for her. I buy her things, give random hugs, sleep on the same bed, etc), and they thought it was because she lied to me about having no money. I didn't give a definitive answer and they left me alone for some time because they thought I will get over it. Later Ling started to get sick, and because she was such a bitch to her friends and sisters, she had no one else to cry to except my parents, I got some earful. My parents blamed me for being hostile and neglecting my duties - which I accepted begrudgingly while still keeping the worst she had done from them.
They found out eventually, stopped blaming me, but my dear sister, Ling, did not change.
My dad's patience ran out when he received the latest phone bill. Apparently the little sisters were abusing the phone and my dad took a step too far by asking Ling to stop mingling with the fcuktard and his friends. I saw her speaking with my dad on the phone because it took place when we were heading for dinner, and she went all ranty about how dad was controlling her and how that was a jerk move for restricting her ~*freedom*~. What broke my patience limit was her asking "what have I done wrong?", in an accusative way, because she, the stupid girl, didn't know what was wrong with her actions.
I eventually told her how we saw what she did, but it didn't stop me from facepalming because therein lies the root of all emo problems - self-centered-ism.
Really, whatever the problem is, stop thinking that only yourself matters. Stop thinking what SHOULD someone do for you.
Start thinking of what YOU SHOULD do - that solves like, gazillion problems in the world.
Brats. They drive me up the wall with kid-logic. (Wow, I can't believe I wrote this much to reach this point)
***
and since I was tagged by both kenkai_chan and enelya87 for this, I might as well do this though I already did it when I started LJ:
SIX NAMES YOU GO BY
1. fly (I don't really want to use this anymore, which is why I'm planning to get my LJ name changed in a month or two)
2. fly_ylf (same reason above)
3. JooJoobear (whoever made up this nick for me has got to have the cutest way of thinking ever! I think it's skotty?)
4. Big sister, 大姐 (I'm the eldest in my family, so everyone by default calls me that [I think you guys know how hierarchy is important in the some Asian culture, though I think it's more prominent in Chinese culture since we rank everyone from oldest to youngest], and I have no idea, I seem to emit some big sister-ly aura which resulted in everyone, from my mom's bunch of teen volunteers in her temple [she manages a temple, tee hee] to my sisters' friends to my university juniors calling me that in various dialects.)
5. Your resident bitch (the LJ bio name. It doesn't mean anything, I just love the label)
6. Whatever everyone else calls me
THREE THINGS YOU ARE WEARING RIGHT NOW
1. A watch
2. Black blouse
3. Black slack trousers (it's workday!)
THREE THINGS YOU WANT VERY BADLY AT THE MOMENT
1. Money
2. More money
3. Infinite amounts of money
THREE PEOPLE WHOM YOU HOPE WILL DO THE MEME
1. Everyone
THREE THINGS YOU DID LAST NIGHT
1. Ate two packets of instant noodle. (had Korean bbq for lunch and need to sleep early, but I underestimated my own hunger)
2. Watched episode 8 of Tatta Hitotsu no Koi (for the angst!emo!butextremelyhot!Kame)
3. Slept early at 9.30 pm, yay!
THREE PEOPLE YOU LAST TALKED TO ON THE PHONE
1. My mom
2. My RL friend
3. My other RL friend
THREE THINGS YOU ARE GOING TO DO TOMORROW
1. Make a video for my mom's event
2. Get a haircut
3. Download those Bleach/FMA episodes that I missed
THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE DRINKS
1. Coffee
2. Tea
3. Pina Colada
THREE THINGS THAT MADE YOU SMILE TODAY
1. Waking up and NOT feeling like a thousand times more tired
2. Read an entry on enelya87's LJ
3. Seeing parikala on LJ. That woman has like, the most unfathomable schedule ever, and we live in the same timezone.
4. (WHAT READING COMPREHENSION?) Listening to this song. The complete cheesiness killed me. (See, parikala! I still secretly wish for Shuuji & Akira's return)
[I wish I could list better, but I have only been awake for 3 or 4 hours]
This is all just random stuff I remembered feeling like posting, as I saw enelya87's entry about her pet peeves, one of which I shared.
EMO KIDS YELLING "WOE IS ME!!!!"
Yes, yes and freaking yes. I hate to remind people (everyone in my life, not just online) that the world doesn't revolve around them. I need to concede that this is not a restriction to anyone's freedom of speech or expression, but when someone rants, they should be able to expect a different POV into a matter which troubled them, and it might not be positive.
I know I complained this to codegal182, but one glaring example in my life is this sister of mine whom we shall call Ling for the time being. She was secretly dating a guy from a different religion (which, unfortunately, is rather taboo, I shall not speak too much into this) who was obviously taking her for granted. He has a girlfriend and planned to marry her but he went along to Ling's affection for him, leading her on. Because of him, dear sister started to ignore me, who's assigned as her "caretaker" because her college is close to where I'm staying now. She started to turn off her phone and spent unnecessary amount of time in the fcuktard's (oops!) room - for reasons I don't feel like imagining. Me and my other sisters were keeping those secret from my parents, since my father could be really bad at dealing with problems when he's mad, and my mom is a hopeless whiner who cries for trivial reasons. (I love them, but they drive me crazy when it comes to crisis) My sister broke up with the fcuktard some time later, but it didn't stop her from being persistently in love with him - or whatever she felt for him. Even now she still wants him, with full realization of what a dick he is. Moron.
Some time ago, I started ignoring Ling, because I can't bear to face her after everything I've done to her and I can't see her straight into the face and pretend that I love her after every moronic moves she pulled to lie to my parents and had us all (me and my other sisters) cover for her, without spilling what she had done. My other sisters tried convincing me to advise her instead, but she had not listened to me in the past, so my stressed self took an evasive approach and ignored her - which ended up badly. My parents started to question my hostility towards her (I can't blame them, it was awkward. I love Ling with all my heart and did everything for her. I buy her things, give random hugs, sleep on the same bed, etc), and they thought it was because she lied to me about having no money. I didn't give a definitive answer and they left me alone for some time because they thought I will get over it. Later Ling started to get sick, and because she was such a bitch to her friends and sisters, she had no one else to cry to except my parents, I got some earful. My parents blamed me for being hostile and neglecting my duties - which I accepted begrudgingly while still keeping the worst she had done from them.
They found out eventually, stopped blaming me, but my dear sister, Ling, did not change.
My dad's patience ran out when he received the latest phone bill. Apparently the little sisters were abusing the phone and my dad took a step too far by asking Ling to stop mingling with the fcuktard and his friends. I saw her speaking with my dad on the phone because it took place when we were heading for dinner, and she went all ranty about how dad was controlling her and how that was a jerk move for restricting her ~*freedom*~. What broke my patience limit was her asking "what have I done wrong?", in an accusative way, because she, the stupid girl, didn't know what was wrong with her actions.
I eventually told her how we saw what she did, but it didn't stop me from facepalming because therein lies the root of all emo problems - self-centered-ism.
Really, whatever the problem is, stop thinking that only yourself matters. Stop thinking what SHOULD someone do for you.
Start thinking of what YOU SHOULD do - that solves like, gazillion problems in the world.
Brats. They drive me up the wall with kid-logic. (Wow, I can't believe I wrote this much to reach this point)
***
and since I was tagged by both kenkai_chan and enelya87 for this, I might as well do this though I already did it when I started LJ:
SIX NAMES YOU GO BY
1. fly (I don't really want to use this anymore, which is why I'm planning to get my LJ name changed in a month or two)
2. fly_ylf (same reason above)
3. JooJoobear (whoever made up this nick for me has got to have the cutest way of thinking ever! I think it's skotty?)
4. Big sister, 大姐 (I'm the eldest in my family, so everyone by default calls me that [I think you guys know how hierarchy is important in the some Asian culture, though I think it's more prominent in Chinese culture since we rank everyone from oldest to youngest], and I have no idea, I seem to emit some big sister-ly aura which resulted in everyone, from my mom's bunch of teen volunteers in her temple [she manages a temple, tee hee] to my sisters' friends to my university juniors calling me that in various dialects.)
5. Your resident bitch (the LJ bio name. It doesn't mean anything, I just love the label)
6. Whatever everyone else calls me
THREE THINGS YOU ARE WEARING RIGHT NOW
1. A watch
2. Black blouse
3. Black slack trousers (it's workday!)
THREE THINGS YOU WANT VERY BADLY AT THE MOMENT
1. Money
2. More money
3. Infinite amounts of money
THREE PEOPLE WHOM YOU HOPE WILL DO THE MEME
1. Everyone
THREE THINGS YOU DID LAST NIGHT
1. Ate two packets of instant noodle. (had Korean bbq for lunch and need to sleep early, but I underestimated my own hunger)
2. Watched episode 8 of Tatta Hitotsu no Koi (for the angst!emo!butextremelyhot!Kame)
3. Slept early at 9.30 pm, yay!
THREE PEOPLE YOU LAST TALKED TO ON THE PHONE
1. My mom
2. My RL friend
3. My other RL friend
THREE THINGS YOU ARE GOING TO DO TOMORROW
1. Make a video for my mom's event
2. Get a haircut
3. Download those Bleach/FMA episodes that I missed
THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE DRINKS
1. Coffee
2. Tea
3. Pina Colada
THREE THINGS THAT MADE YOU SMILE TODAY
1. Waking up and NOT feeling like a thousand times more tired
2. Read an entry on enelya87's LJ
3. Seeing parikala on LJ. That woman has like, the most unfathomable schedule ever, and we live in the same timezone.
4. (WHAT READING COMPREHENSION?) Listening to this song. The complete cheesiness killed me. (See, parikala! I still secretly wish for Shuuji & Akira's return)
[I wish I could list better, but I have only been awake for 3 or 4 hours]