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I'm going to bitch about my hockey coach because that's what LJ is for and because I am pissed off about it and I dont want to tell the team because they all like him:
Anyways today in our game I didnt play that much like i normally dont but thats fine and thats not what i am complaining about. its the fact that i sit there and cheer for every single player on the ice and i come to practice everyday and work as hard as i can yet whenever i attempt to make a conversation or say something on the bench he completely disregards it or tells me i shouldnt be saying whatever it is. fine i can handle people yelling at me but to just blow me off like im not even part of the team completely agravates me. i just dont understand how he can claim to be a decent coach when he doesnt even instill team values in every player. luckily ive had amazing coaches in the past so i know how to be a team player but some of the other girls dont. and then during practices he always addresses the people who play and never the people who rarely do because why on earth would he want the whole team to get better as opposed to just the good ones? (sarcasm). if he wants me to get better then he has to tell me what i need to work on, which i am perfectly willing to be told. last year courtney was completely fair with that type of stuff and i actually had a relationship with her as opposed to this dumb old college hockey player who knows a lot about the sport of hockey but shit about being a team player. im so fucking fed up with him that im almost ready to quit. but im not going to do that because i like the team and they are my friends and they at least appreciate me.
Anyways today in our game I didnt play that much like i normally dont but thats fine and thats not what i am complaining about. its the fact that i sit there and cheer for every single player on the ice and i come to practice everyday and work as hard as i can yet whenever i attempt to make a conversation or say something on the bench he completely disregards it or tells me i shouldnt be saying whatever it is. fine i can handle people yelling at me but to just blow me off like im not even part of the team completely agravates me. i just dont understand how he can claim to be a decent coach when he doesnt even instill team values in every player. luckily ive had amazing coaches in the past so i know how to be a team player but some of the other girls dont. and then during practices he always addresses the people who play and never the people who rarely do because why on earth would he want the whole team to get better as opposed to just the good ones? (sarcasm). if he wants me to get better then he has to tell me what i need to work on, which i am perfectly willing to be told. last year courtney was completely fair with that type of stuff and i actually had a relationship with her as opposed to this dumb old college hockey player who knows a lot about the sport of hockey but shit about being a team player. im so fucking fed up with him that im almost ready to quit. but im not going to do that because i like the team and they are my friends and they at least appreciate me.