Oops There Goes Another One.....
So then there was....
Wannabe Dom off an adult contact website. He seemed nice, good conversation, fun profile, up for sex and exploration, so I did my usual bit of nudging to see if the man is sexually dominant or submissive, or at a least red hot hedonist. Seemed he was a red hot hedonist type with an edge that started getting very excited when I dropped in words like dominant, submissive and spanking. Hmmm I thought.... interesting let's nudge this guy a little more.... one very very excited man later wanted to know basically, when he could come round?
Then he disappeared.... like they do.... nothing for 3 days... no emails.... no memos.... nothing. Then all of a sudden up he popped up on messenger. Now I’m not a big fan of chat on messenger. I’m more of an email and telephone girl.
But anyway.... married man and all that so I gave him some leeway. He got very excited about the whole power exchange concept. Sadly though from some ideas in his head and I suspect some very bad porn he had got a twisted fairy tale concept of what it was all about.
I pretended I knew nothing and just had done a bit of spanking in the past (innocent look). Bedroom slipper and all that. He told me that the way to establish the dominant submissive dynamic was through the man overcoming the woman physically. I wondered had he ever met MissP and did he know he’d get hurt that way?
But..... Oh yes I said, wondering what the hell he meant.... was he going to wrestle me to the ground and cover me in peanut butter? Perhaps he meant he was going to fuck me stupid till I was conquered by his sheer masculinity, passing out with feminine vapours. What I didn’t expect was this......
Ok he said, this is the scenario.....
I (me the submissive) would be wearing just stockings and very high heels. Of course what else would I be wearing don’t be daft....
He would be fully clothed (of course he would be)....
And then......
He would create the dominant submissive dynamic....
By....
Us....
Having....
A....
Pillow fight....
Yes you heard it right. A pillow fight.
Yes..... as a good friend of mine said.... wrong on so many levels.....
And indeed all of the laughter, snorting and hilarity aside.... really what the fuck.... you want to establish a Ds dynamic by physically overpowering a woman..... erm you mean rape don’t you?
Have to say that’s what my intuition said and..... I only fuck up when I don’t listen to her.
Still... funny story huh?
Or have I got it wrong? Anyone out there established their Ds dynamic through pillow fights?? Maybe we should try it?
Wannabe Dom off an adult contact website. He seemed nice, good conversation, fun profile, up for sex and exploration, so I did my usual bit of nudging to see if the man is sexually dominant or submissive, or at a least red hot hedonist. Seemed he was a red hot hedonist type with an edge that started getting very excited when I dropped in words like dominant, submissive and spanking. Hmmm I thought.... interesting let's nudge this guy a little more.... one very very excited man later wanted to know basically, when he could come round?
Then he disappeared.... like they do.... nothing for 3 days... no emails.... no memos.... nothing. Then all of a sudden up he popped up on messenger. Now I’m not a big fan of chat on messenger. I’m more of an email and telephone girl.
But anyway.... married man and all that so I gave him some leeway. He got very excited about the whole power exchange concept. Sadly though from some ideas in his head and I suspect some very bad porn he had got a twisted fairy tale concept of what it was all about.
I pretended I knew nothing and just had done a bit of spanking in the past (innocent look). Bedroom slipper and all that. He told me that the way to establish the dominant submissive dynamic was through the man overcoming the woman physically. I wondered had he ever met MissP and did he know he’d get hurt that way?
But..... Oh yes I said, wondering what the hell he meant.... was he going to wrestle me to the ground and cover me in peanut butter? Perhaps he meant he was going to fuck me stupid till I was conquered by his sheer masculinity, passing out with feminine vapours. What I didn’t expect was this......
Ok he said, this is the scenario.....
I (me the submissive) would be wearing just stockings and very high heels. Of course what else would I be wearing don’t be daft....
He would be fully clothed (of course he would be)....
And then......
He would create the dominant submissive dynamic....
By....
Us....
Having....
A....
Pillow fight....
Yes you heard it right. A pillow fight.
Yes..... as a good friend of mine said.... wrong on so many levels.....
And indeed all of the laughter, snorting and hilarity aside.... really what the fuck.... you want to establish a Ds dynamic by physically overpowering a woman..... erm you mean rape don’t you?
Have to say that’s what my intuition said and..... I only fuck up when I don’t listen to her.
Still... funny story huh?
Or have I got it wrong? Anyone out there established their Ds dynamic through pillow fights?? Maybe we should try it?