New starts...
Well Rob and I ended, as it were. Due to the fact that we hold a lease until August 20th we are going to try to stick out living with eachother for now. It will be hard but I think its do-able. Im not entirely sure what events led up to this , only that it happened. I worry that its because of another girl but then I really dont know. He says it
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It is my opinion that people who hate anonymous posters only hate the anonymous poster because the poster posts something true but doesn't leave any way to be yelled at back. Again, let me explain.
Person A posted about a break-up she had with Person B. I am friends with Person B and I enjoy Person A (I don't really know her well enough to call her a friend). But, Person A is super insecure and really possessive. So when I read her post about the breakup, she asked for some cheer and I ANONYMOUSLY posted this information: Be yourself. Find something that makes you happy. Don't worry about whether you are too fat, etc. Essentially, get over him and be happy.
Yes, I was a little blunt, but honestly, I really want her to get over the insecurity and just BE the person that Person B really loves. Because he does love her.
Anyway, she changed her journal to friends only because, in her words, she doesn't like anonymous posters and wants people to feel free to tell her what they think, to her face. Well, I did tell her to her face. I just a)wasn't conversant at that time with LiveJournal and didn't have an account and b)was afraid that she would get pissed at me and start this big thing causing my friendship to be ruined with Person B.
And obviously, I was right about reason B, because she got mad about the anonymous post. I mean, if I had just said something like "poor you, I'm so sorry" she wouldn't have changed her livejournal status. And the only reason to want to know who is posting is to know who and how to yell at that person for the post they did.
So. I'm just going to cut and paste this into Person B's email and cut and paste this into the part of Person A's livejournal that is not friends only so she can read this. Because I do know both of them.
And I was afraid that she would accuse me of trying to steal Rob...even though I'm married and happily for the most part. And it was cowardly on that level. Plus if both of them are going to stop liking me, I'll deal with it. Because I've lost the rest of my friends, loneliness isn't so damn scary anymore.
And for the rest of you who aren't reading this because I am the singular most uninteresting damn person in the universe, Paul has been wonderful about this whole thing while I've perseverated over it.
I want everyone to realize that they are whole by themselves, and then find the completeness that comes from being horribly, legally entangled.
BTW -- Person A, being married myself, I am totally about committment and staying married. So I'm not after your man. I have found that one is way more than enough, and sometimes more than I can handle. There are days that I would love to be alone...not with anyone else. Just alone. So go ahead and yell at me. In public even.
:) It'll be even for you guys missing my wedding.
Anyway. Bye.
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