New starts...

[alanapsyche]

Well Rob and I ended, as it were. Due to the fact that we hold a lease until August 20th we are going to try to stick out living with eachother for now. It will be hard but I think its do-able. Im not entirely sure what events led up to this , only that it happened. I worry that its because of another girl but then I really dont know. He says it

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[anonymous]

Darling, why do you assume it is a problem with you? In marriage, as in most things, both people are responsible. You must understand that your insecurity can be a bit frustrating, if what I'm reading here says anything about you on a normal level.
He says it isn't about another woman. Then instead of trying to choose to believe him, either believe him, or don't. And don't worry about what he thinks you might be thinking. Don't make him explain himself, don't question him, don't do anything stupid because you feel unloved. From what I've read, you are infinitely interesting, seriously insecure, and silly/funny from time to time. Every woman is too big, too small, too fat, too thin, too loud, too quiet, you get the drift. Be happy with you. Don't try to become what he wants, become what you want. Find your passion. Not physical passion, but what you want to do. Then do it. Live your life, not the life you think he wants to live.
Don't let him take advantage of you, if you're still living together, don't continue to sleep together, sweetie, life's too short and you might miss the person you are meant to be with 'cause you're concentrating on your ex. Get over him, whatever it takes. Sure, maybe you are meant to be together, but no one will respect you until you respect yourself. So get to it.
Be the beautiful woman you know you are. Looks don't matter. Look to all the ugly chicks with good-looking men. Its personality and no one likes a whiner. Be positive, be happy, be SECURE in yourself.
You deserve the best, so go get it.