*I wanna hold your haaaaaaannd, I wanna hold your hand*

[akira084]

You know what? I miss hugs. well, maybe not just hugs, but like, contact. well, I miss hugging my mom (my parents are on a trip since last week) and like, holding a persons hand and stuff, and girl hugs, and hugging my grandma; but guy hugs not all that much. being single and up in LFP, and being like myself, one doesn't get all that many hugs

Comments

[cscx]

i think generally guys get fewer hugs than girls. like, if i'm in need of a hug and if les isn't around, i can get one from almost anyone in my dorm--male or female. for a single guy to get hugs, he probably needs to have close female friends so it won't be awkward, and it'd probably be difficult to get hugs from your guy friends. yay double standards and gender roles!

[akira084]

haha, yeah. I'm thinkin you're right. oh well, it's a relatively minor double standard at least. : )

[fightinjesuit]

I am not a hug person. I'm not the typical girl who goes around hugging people for any and every reason.... which is probably why I'm not very popular. LOL. I definitely like massages though; you're more than welcome to give me one any time... like maybe for my birthday!! :D

[akira084]

hey, if there's an opportunity, you're totally on for that massage/backrub! and yeah, for us who don't exchange hugs with people often, we may lack the many social connections that some people may have, but who needs 'em anyway! : )

nothing wrong with guy hugs

[borkinter]

Hey, there's nothing wrong with men hugging other men.

*hug*

Re: nothing wrong with guy hugs

[akira084]

lol, yeah, I do always appreciate guy hugs from my friend Terry.

*hug back* : )