I am so Effed!
So the 19th is T's b-day, AND the day Leenie has invited ppl to visit her sis' pad in Mich.
Now I've tried very hard to never miss an event hosted by one of my friends, i've even dragged psuedo-dates places, but more importantly I never see Leenie.
But...birthday. Now I could be bitchy and remind her that she missed going out for mine, but that was like tragic and not purposeful where she was having fun elsewhere.
Best I can figure, for her b-day the plan is to go somewhere in Chi-town for the party as usj, on sat. But leen's gathering is sat/sun... so I'm torn.
As Pete made me realize today when we were watching 'I love you, man' it's like choosing between maids of honor. Okay that statement really doesn't make sense out of context... frak, i'm too drunk/tired/just plain out of it to even know if i'm typing halfway coherent as it is. ....plus it's not an interesting anectdote other than boys think differently than girls at times. he asked who my maid of honor would be if i got married and i said well first it would depend on who i was marrying. And he's like how would that matter? and I'm like well two things--1. did a close friend introduce us, cus if so that would get her bid, and 2. if my bff has issues with the guy i plan to marry i don't think she'd be my moh, course, hopefully that won't be an issue.
And he's like wha...so i give the example of when i was in college MOH would have been Leenie, but now I spend most of my time with T, so I'd likely consider her...etc, etc, etc. And then it hit me that that's exactly who i'm deciding between on the 19th...i just want a time turner--more fun than cloning myself.
Now I've tried very hard to never miss an event hosted by one of my friends, i've even dragged psuedo-dates places, but more importantly I never see Leenie.
But...birthday. Now I could be bitchy and remind her that she missed going out for mine, but that was like tragic and not purposeful where she was having fun elsewhere.
Best I can figure, for her b-day the plan is to go somewhere in Chi-town for the party as usj, on sat. But leen's gathering is sat/sun... so I'm torn.
As Pete made me realize today when we were watching 'I love you, man' it's like choosing between maids of honor. Okay that statement really doesn't make sense out of context... frak, i'm too drunk/tired/just plain out of it to even know if i'm typing halfway coherent as it is. ....plus it's not an interesting anectdote other than boys think differently than girls at times. he asked who my maid of honor would be if i got married and i said well first it would depend on who i was marrying. And he's like how would that matter? and I'm like well two things--1. did a close friend introduce us, cus if so that would get her bid, and 2. if my bff has issues with the guy i plan to marry i don't think she'd be my moh, course, hopefully that won't be an issue.
And he's like wha...so i give the example of when i was in college MOH would have been Leenie, but now I spend most of my time with T, so I'd likely consider her...etc, etc, etc. And then it hit me that that's exactly who i'm deciding between on the 19th...i just want a time turner--more fun than cloning myself.