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[ajs090901]

well kids how is everyone? im doing very well. lets see im turning 20 in no time. Its going to be andrews and i 6 month on my birthday wich i thought was cool. its so odd. we both never thought that our relationship would be so perfect but it is. i mean we have stupid little stuff but the thing is is that we always resolve it and then are perfectly

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Re: I have to agree with...

[sh0ot4thestarz]

So, i haven’t signed on to LJ in quite some time... but i don’t think it's fair that Amanda is getting bashed by people who don't even sign their names. talk about being oh so mature. Something tells me that I have a few ideas who you two may be… but I also could be wrong. In either case, why are you so bent on the past? Everyone has made mistakes in their lives. I have no doubt in my head that Amanda did love Pat. People grow and people change. These two comments are proof of that. You two, I imagine, were friends with Amanda at some point in time. Everyone deserves to be happy… and a lot of the time, that means moving on. Yes, this is the happiest Amanda has been in a while. She’s getting her life together and figuring out what she wants. She was a little bit of a wreck after her and Pat broke up, whether or not you believe it. Between finding someone that can make her comfortable and happy again, and getting other things in her life straight, and finding something that she knows she loves to do… yeah-I would imagine that that would make someone happier than they had been in a while.

If one of these comments is coming from one of the people that I think it is, you should remember that sometimes people try to mend bridges-and get shot down and rejected. Maybe that’s why they are forgotten.

I’ve known Amanda for almost my whole life… so I think I know the “real” her by now. She’s probably the one friend I have that has never left my side, and yet will talk sense into me when I am being unfair.

Again, people change… and some people actually grow up. Doesn’t look like you were lucky enough to reach that stage yet. If you want to start shit… then go ahead. You can come after me too.

Re: I have to agree with...

[red_dragon2208]

I definitely agree with emmy on that point: I also know for a fact that manda loved pat. Back when her and i were close, and would talk giddily in the middle of the night about our relationships, it was extremely apparent. I agree, actually i know, that people change as they grow, some for the best, and others...not so much. I know for sure that i have changed, and so has everyone that i know. Theyre exposed to new people, new experiences, and new circumstances. Sometimes...feelings just...change, dissolve. I had that happen to me rather recently, came out of a relationship that was relatively 4 years long. Something felt different to me. I knew I loved him, as i always will. But i questioned whether or not i was 'in' love with him still. Did i hurt him by being honest and letting him go? yes, but in the long run it is for the best, it allows for moving on, starting over, and finding happiness in the world again. the human 'heart', human emotion, are quite tricky things while also being extremely fragile.
I have a feeling i know who the first comment was left by....but i have to say i am baffled by the second. So harsh, and so threatening in a sense...hm. Unfortunately manda and i arent as close as we used to be. we rarely talk. and granted, i dont know the situation, i dont know everything that went down. However, i dont see it right to bash her, and almost attack her on this, especially so cowardly. Everyone is entitled to his or her own happiness. Again, i know i dont know the situation, so please, dont anyone attack me now if you dont agree with what ive said. As far as i can see, shes happy. Dont try and rob her of that.

Re: I have to agree with...

[ajs090901]

Thanks for standing up for me. You know that i would do the same for you.