What is giving?
From "The Prophet," by Kahlil Gibran (1923)
Then said a rich man, Speak to us of
Giving.
And he answered:
You give but little when you give of your
possessions.
It is when you give of yourself that you
truly give.
For what are your possessions but things
you keep and guard for fear you may need
them tomorrow?
And tomorrow, what shall tomorrow
bring to the over-prudent dog burying bones
in the trackless sand as he follows the
pilgrims to the holy city?
And what is fear of need but need itself?
Is not dread of thirst when your well is
full, the thirst that is unquenchable?
There are those who give little of the
much which they have--and they give it
for recognition and their hidden desire
makes their gifts unwholesome.
And there are those who have little and
give it all.
These are the believers in life and the
bounty of life, and their coffer is never
empty.
There are those who give with joy, and
that joy is their reward.
And there are those who give with pain,
and that pain is their baptism.
And there are those who give and know
not pain in giving, nor do they seek joy,
nor give with mindfulness of virtue;
They give as in yonder valley the myrtle
breathes its fragrance into space.
Through the hands of such as these God
speaks, and from behind their eyes He
smiles upon the earth.
It is well to give when asked, but it is
better to give unasked, through understanding;
And to the open-handed the search for
one who shall receive is joy greater than
giving.
And is there aught you would withhold?
All you have shall someday be given;
Therefore give now, that the season of
giving may be yours and not your inheritors'.
You often say, "I would give, but only
to the deserving."
The trees in your orchard say not so, nor
the flocks in your pasture.
They give that they may live, for to withhold
is to perish.
Surely he who is worthy to receive his
days and his nights, is worthy of all else
from you.
And he who has deserved to drink from
the ocean of life deserves to fill his little cup
from your stream.
And what desert greater shall there be,
than that which lies in the courage and the
confidence, nay the charity of receiving?
And who are you that men should rend
their bosom and unveil their pride
unabashed?
See first that you yourself deserve to be
a giver, and an instrument of giving.
For in truth it is life that gives unto
life---while you, who deem yourself a giver,
are but a witness.
And you receivers---and you are all
receivers---assume no weight of gratitude,
lest you lay a yoke upon yourself and upon
him who gives.
Rather rise together with the giver on
his gifts as on wings.
For to be over-mindful of your debt, is
to doubt his generosity who has the free-hearted
earth for , mother, and God for father.
---Kahlil Gibran (1923)
Then said a rich man, Speak to us of
Giving.
And he answered:
You give but little when you give of your
possessions.
It is when you give of yourself that you
truly give.
For what are your possessions but things
you keep and guard for fear you may need
them tomorrow?
And tomorrow, what shall tomorrow
bring to the over-prudent dog burying bones
in the trackless sand as he follows the
pilgrims to the holy city?
And what is fear of need but need itself?
Is not dread of thirst when your well is
full, the thirst that is unquenchable?
There are those who give little of the
much which they have--and they give it
for recognition and their hidden desire
makes their gifts unwholesome.
And there are those who have little and
give it all.
These are the believers in life and the
bounty of life, and their coffer is never
empty.
There are those who give with joy, and
that joy is their reward.
And there are those who give with pain,
and that pain is their baptism.
And there are those who give and know
not pain in giving, nor do they seek joy,
nor give with mindfulness of virtue;
They give as in yonder valley the myrtle
breathes its fragrance into space.
Through the hands of such as these God
speaks, and from behind their eyes He
smiles upon the earth.
It is well to give when asked, but it is
better to give unasked, through understanding;
And to the open-handed the search for
one who shall receive is joy greater than
giving.
And is there aught you would withhold?
All you have shall someday be given;
Therefore give now, that the season of
giving may be yours and not your inheritors'.
You often say, "I would give, but only
to the deserving."
The trees in your orchard say not so, nor
the flocks in your pasture.
They give that they may live, for to withhold
is to perish.
Surely he who is worthy to receive his
days and his nights, is worthy of all else
from you.
And he who has deserved to drink from
the ocean of life deserves to fill his little cup
from your stream.
And what desert greater shall there be,
than that which lies in the courage and the
confidence, nay the charity of receiving?
And who are you that men should rend
their bosom and unveil their pride
unabashed?
See first that you yourself deserve to be
a giver, and an instrument of giving.
For in truth it is life that gives unto
life---while you, who deem yourself a giver,
are but a witness.
And you receivers---and you are all
receivers---assume no weight of gratitude,
lest you lay a yoke upon yourself and upon
him who gives.
Rather rise together with the giver on
his gifts as on wings.
For to be over-mindful of your debt, is
to doubt his generosity who has the free-hearted
earth for , mother, and God for father.
---Kahlil Gibran (1923)