Apr 30, 2005 23:04
My ex boyfriend, James, from home........well, long story short:
We broke up February of my senior year, he started dating a girl the day after we broke up and ended up getting married to her in August of 2003 (because she was prego...). Well, she had the baby about 2 months premature and it passed away the next day. (which i am sad that it happened.) but they stayed together, when many thought that they should have gotten the marriage annulled or just gotten divorced....... but they tried it out I guess, (i haven't talked to him since right after I graduated that summer...... so its been two years since we have talked).
Well, one of my friends lives next to them in an Apt. complex in Grandview (about 5 min from Sunnyside, my hometown) and they constantly fight, threatening each other, etc. Not a good marriage at all..... horrible, and scary from what I hear. Well, I guess they were carrying on the same way they do (fighting, screaming, etc) last week, and she got sick of it, said she wanted a divorce, I guess, and took off back to her parents house back in Sunnyside, where they took her to hawaii with them on Vacation........
Well, that is what my name means........ I have thought that they would split up ever since they got married just because she was pregnant, and now it has happened, and I don't know what to do, because I have always cared about him, but moreover, I want some closure to the two horrible breakups we had over my 4 years in High school...... He was a huge part of my high school career. Shit, I haven't talked to him in so long that I don't know how to go about trying to get ahold of him to get some closure, or make things better, or just get laid! (j/k...........okay, not really.) He was my first, took the V card from me and so I want to see what would happen if I were to see him again. Got any advice?
-aig