No, no, no.
I am not going to write an Iron Man story wherein
Obie sends a girl to Tony's house a couple of weeks after he gets back from Afghanistan, Tony allows her to tie him to the bed in a quest for "normalcy" (whatever that means around him anyway), she ignores the safeword (on Obie's instructions), videotapes his meltdown, and then Obie puts it up on YouTube as a way of influencing the Board.
pensive1, you got this?