women-owned and operated sex toy stores and manufacturers
I made a post similar to this awhile ago, but this list is far more comprehensive. Name of store, location, specialty if any. Not all of the stores I would consider feminist, and some do sell unsafe toys, so if it says it's made of jelly, don't buy it. Not all of them have online shops. Some of them are on etsy and those are going to have a very narrow selection, but hey, you're supporting super small businesses.
A Little More Interesting Calgary, Alberta
A Woman's Touch Milwaukee, Wisconsin; Madison, Wisconsin
Angelic Aromas Oakland, California (aphrodisiacs)
Aphrodite's Toy Box Atlanta, Georgia
Aslan Leather Toronto, Ontario
Babeland Seattle, Washington; New York, New York
Chained Desires Baltimore, Maryland
Come As You Are Toronto, Ontario
Come Together cyberspace
Desire Me Now cyberspace (bdsm, handmade)
Early to Bed Chicago, Illinois
Eve's Garden cyberspace
For Your Nymphomation cyberspace (sex toy carrying and storing cases)
Forbidden Fruit Austin, Texas
G Boutique Chicago, Illinois
Good For Her Toronto, Ontario
Hidden Self cyberspace
Holistic Wisdom cyberspace
Hysteria Denver, Colorado
In Her Tube cyberspace (handmade recycled rubber harnesses of all kinds and bondage gear)
It's My Pleasure Portland, Oregon
The Jildo cyberspace (handmade wooden dildos)
Jollies cyberspace
Joy Toyz Montreal, Quebec
Laura's Things
Lesbian Toy Shop cyberspace
Libida cyberspace
Love Honey cyberspace (UK)
Lovecraft Toronto, Ontario; Mississauaga, Ontario
Lucy's Lair cyberspace (bdsm)
Luddites and Philistines cyberspace
Mail & Female Amsterdam, the Netherlands
Miko Providence, Rhode Island
Nomia Portland, Oregon
Oh My Northampton, Massachusetts
Passional Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Pink Dungeon cyberspace (handmade, bdsm)
Pull My Daisy Los Angeles, California
Red Tent Sisters Toronto, Ontario
The Rubber Rose San Diego, California
The Sensual Vegan cyberspace
Sex Toy Tales cyberspace
Sh! London, England
Smitten Kitten Minneapolis, Minnesotta
The Snag cyberspace (handmade, bdsm)
Sub-Shop cyberspace
Sugar Baltimore, Maryland
Theriaca fina cyberspace (handmade, bdsm)
Tickled Pink Toys cyberspace
Tantus cyberspace
Tulip Chicago, Illinois
Va Va Voom Asheville, North Carolina
Venus Envy Halifax, Nova Scotia; Ottawa, Ontario
Vixen Creations cyberspace
WINK Kansas City, Missouri
Womyn's Ware Vancouver, British Columbia
A Little More Interesting Calgary, Alberta
A Woman's Touch Milwaukee, Wisconsin; Madison, Wisconsin
Angelic Aromas Oakland, California (aphrodisiacs)
Aphrodite's Toy Box Atlanta, Georgia
Aslan Leather Toronto, Ontario
Babeland Seattle, Washington; New York, New York
Chained Desires Baltimore, Maryland
Come As You Are Toronto, Ontario
Come Together cyberspace
Desire Me Now cyberspace (bdsm, handmade)
Early to Bed Chicago, Illinois
Eve's Garden cyberspace
For Your Nymphomation cyberspace (sex toy carrying and storing cases)
Forbidden Fruit Austin, Texas
G Boutique Chicago, Illinois
Good For Her Toronto, Ontario
Hidden Self cyberspace
Holistic Wisdom cyberspace
Hysteria Denver, Colorado
In Her Tube cyberspace (handmade recycled rubber harnesses of all kinds and bondage gear)
It's My Pleasure Portland, Oregon
The Jildo cyberspace (handmade wooden dildos)
Jollies cyberspace
Joy Toyz Montreal, Quebec
Laura's Things
Lesbian Toy Shop cyberspace
Libida cyberspace
Love Honey cyberspace (UK)
Lovecraft Toronto, Ontario; Mississauaga, Ontario
Lucy's Lair cyberspace (bdsm)
Luddites and Philistines cyberspace
Mail & Female Amsterdam, the Netherlands
Miko Providence, Rhode Island
Nomia Portland, Oregon
Oh My Northampton, Massachusetts
Passional Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Pink Dungeon cyberspace (handmade, bdsm)
Pull My Daisy Los Angeles, California
Red Tent Sisters Toronto, Ontario
The Rubber Rose San Diego, California
The Sensual Vegan cyberspace
Sex Toy Tales cyberspace
Sh! London, England
Smitten Kitten Minneapolis, Minnesotta
The Snag cyberspace (handmade, bdsm)
Sub-Shop cyberspace
Sugar Baltimore, Maryland
Theriaca fina cyberspace (handmade, bdsm)
Tickled Pink Toys cyberspace
Tantus cyberspace
Tulip Chicago, Illinois
Va Va Voom Asheville, North Carolina
Venus Envy Halifax, Nova Scotia; Ottawa, Ontario
Vixen Creations cyberspace
WINK Kansas City, Missouri
Womyn's Ware Vancouver, British Columbia