for my own reference

[afterannabel]

States with hate crime legislation on the basis of gender AND sexual orientation:
Arizona; California; Connecticut; DC; Hawaii; Illinois; Iowa; Louisiana; Maine; Minnesota; Montana; Nevada; New Hampshire; New Jersey; New Mexico; New York; Pennsylvania; Rhode Island; Tennesse; Texas; Vermont; Washington

Same sex marriage:
Massachusetts

Civil Unions:
Connecticut; New Hampshire; New Jersey; Vermont

Domestic partnerships:
California; Maine; parts of Oregon; Washington

Gay adoption:
California; Massachusetts; New Jersey; New Mexico; New York; Ohio; Vermont; Washington; Wisconsin