where pip's drifting away from reading essays:
Two quick things that you don't have to do but I stole from incognita in any case:
o1. Comment in this post and I will choose seven of your interests I would like you to explain more clearly in your journal.
o2. Something along the lines of.. comment and I'll say things I like about youuuuuuu
o3. Something along the lines of.. comment and tell me some ( Read more... )
o1. Comment in this post and I will choose seven of your interests I would like you to explain more clearly in your journal.
o2. Something along the lines of.. comment and I'll say things I like about youuuuuuu
o3. Something along the lines of.. comment and tell me some ( Read more... )
I'm gonna answer your interests thingy here, cause some of this stuff I don't want Gus's sisters to see.
unusual relationships - I think I put this one in my interests when I didn't know the name for the kind of relationship Gus and I were growing into. When we first started opening up our marriage it was strange and unusal to me. I'd only ever known monogamy, had only ever heard of monogamy, had never been exposed to open relationships or polyamory. So the only way I knew how to describe it was "unusual" :)
random acts of kindness - I've always had a "be good to others and life will be good to you" outlook. Well, maybe not always. We all have our bad days, right? ;) Things like, holding a door open for a parent with a cumbersome stroller, or giving the old people time to cross the parking lot and plenty of space to do it in, or helping the neighbor kids out when their football got caught in our bushes. Little things like that. Once upon a time I was at a Starbucks drive thru. I was at the window ready to pay, but the guy just handed me my drink. I went to hand him my cash and he said, "oh don't worry about it. The last car took care of you." Say what!? I didn't know the people in that other car, they didn't know me... but that simple act that cost them less than $5 totally made my day and has stayed with me for months :)
intelligent conversationalists - this is really for online chatting... especially when it comes to horny boys: If you can't be bothered to type in complete sentences, I can't be bothered to respond to you.
But also, I enjoy being around people who are able to talk. None of this, "I don't eat meat cause I'm a veterinarian" stuff, you know? I like people who are able to talk about their opinions and back them up. People who don't force their opinions/beliefs down my throat. And people who are willing to see things from someone elses point of view. Even if that other point of view doesn't change their opinion, it means a lot to me if they can understand the other persons side of things.
Does that even make sense?
growing up - just cause I'm 29 in years, doesn't mean I'm 29 in maturity. I like that I can be serious and I like that I can play, but there are more fundamental skills I do not have.... like respecting money and sticking to a budget, like respecting my body and paying attention to what I put in it and what I do with it, like respecting my home and taking care of it. Basically what I need to do is learn to be responsible. I can do it now (be responsible that is), but I get resentful about having to do it. I hate cleaning, I hate yard work, I hate how long it takes to save for things I want. But these are all fundamental abilities an adult needs to have. So yeah... growing up would be good :) And, for the record, I am trying, but god is it hard. :/
anticipation - in this instance I'm talking sexual anticipation. Sitting down in a theater on a first date and wondering if he's going to hold your hand. Saying goodnight and wondering if he's going to kiss you. That -moment- before your lips touch for the first time. On a kinkier note: being bound to the bed and blindfolded, wondering where he's going to kiss you next. Or where the next drop of hot wax is going to fall. Or which cheek of your ass is going to get slapped next... and where.
warm fuzzies - that tingly feeling you get in your chest or stomach.... especially at the start of a new relationship. I've been known to get the warm fuzzies at concerts, while snuggling the Gus, while snuggling the kitties... it mostly happens when I feel surrounded with love. :)
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