Feb 28, 2006 11:31
Ok, maybe I can understand that she still loves him. Maybe I can understand that she still wants to be friends with him...no problem. But since she and I spoke last night for the first time, she now feels strong again and desperately is going to try to get him back. LOL Good luck.
It took everything I had not to ask her "are you going to try to get him back after he and I get married or after he and I have kids?"
I did NOT tell her that when he comes back, he is getting his vasectomy reversed immediately. She is almost 40, big and blonde.
And the huge irony is that she wants a POLY relationship with he and I!!!! It will be only the second time in my life I will say HELL NO because of who it is. Not only Hell No but Hell Never.
John's father stopped breathing on his own this morning and is unconscious. He's hooked up to a feeding tube and ventilator. John will arrive in Atlanta on the 3rd or 4th and will help his mom at that time make the decision. I feel so bad for him, as it is the second time their family has had to make that decision.
My family will never have to make that decision. It is in all of our wills that if one of us is rendered braindead or unable to support our own life functions, then all mechanical help will be shut off. It costs too much for the family, financially and emotionally.