He said "My phone is always on" after breaking up with me. What does this mean?
From the moment I met my boyfriend at the beginning of the summer he knew that I would be moving in September. Initially I told him I did not want a relationship and then we ended up getting very serious and both of us got swept up in this highly emotional summer romance. As August approached, and the majority of my weekends were booked up.. we
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You decided first that you should talk about breaking up, then after an enjoyable evening he ended up breaking up with you. Then you (both) had sex.
Then he woke up with you walked you to your car, asked for a hug and told you he phone is always on. He told you about going on a diet to "lose the tire" and that he would be miserable doing it.
He called left a random story and was evasive when you called back, commented about your new job
This could be one of two things the way I see it.
First. Like looloosmells stated, it sounds like he cares for you but something is "off" His personality seems to bounce back and forth a lot. If he wanted to break up with you he wouldn't have had sex, wouldn't have told you his phone is always on and wouldn't have told you about his diet (because it's no longer your business). If he didn't want to break up with you he would have kept trying to stay in contact with you, messaging you or commenting on facebook, leaving voicemails etc...
Second. I suspect this is more likely. It sounds like he didn't want to break up with you but felt/feels he had to. He could have broke up with you and offered to sleep in another room because he thought it would be worse if you broke up with him (emotionally for him) He walked you to your car, asked you for a hug and told you about the diet. It sounds like he may have been wanting you to tell him you made a mistake. His caring for you and showing you he is caring for himself by going on the diet sounds like he didn't want to break up but felt obligated to. And you most certainly don't tell someone your phone is always on if you want to distance yourself emtionally from them. How can you distance yourself from someone if they call you when when they need something?
Sounds like he didn't want to break up, regardless of if he admits it or even if he knows himself.
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