Feb 07, 2007 09:42
If you want to talk to me or anyone on my friends list, please e-mail me first. Don't just start bugging the shit out of the people on my friends list trying to get more contact information out of them. You will probably not get anything more than a "why don't you ask her for it?" It is not their information to give out, so they won't be giving it to you.
If you contact me and ask me to respond to you via e-mail, LiveJournal, MySpace message, phone, snail mail, homing pigeon, etc and I don't respond right away...don't take it personally. I'm probably busy with life and other things. If I respond with just a quick note or a very glib one-liner, I'm more than likely not that interested in talking to you and am just trying my hand at being nice for a change. If I don't respond to you at all, take the hint and move on.
People, there are reasons why someone stops talking to you. It may have been something you did or it might just be a personal issue with the other person. The point is that you will stay in contact with the people you have truly cared about throughout your life and you will make a concerted effort to do so. Please don't use my friends list, or me, as a way for you to conquer whatever personal demons you're trying to wrestle.
I am not an Absolution Pimp; I am not the Forgiveness Fairy; I am not your means to completing step four on your road to recovery; and I certainly have no connections to the spirits above, below and here on earth to help reverse whatever bad karma you may be currently experiencing.
You want absolution and forgiveness? Talk to a priest.
You want to apologize to everyone you've hurt in your past because whatever 12-step program you've joined tells you that's how you recover? That's great, but I'm not a subscriber.
You suffering from bad karma because you were a moron in the past and acted like a complete and total ass, forcing your friends to think less of you because of your actions and not the people and circumstances you are blaming for your current situation? Tough, and no matter how much Wicca for the Solitary Practitioner (by Scott Cunningham) you quote will ever change that.
If you want all of these things, I suggest you call up Tom Cruise and pick up a copy of Dianetics. I'm sure that Xenu and the Thetas will be glad to help you once you give them all of your money. Otherwise, please leave the people on my friends page out of your little drama.