My heart truly goes out to you! I'm sure finding out you were adopted @ the time of your parents death, didn't give you much time to sit and talk things over with them. And then to have the rejection of your bio mother's husband. Sounds like she is not courageous enough to speak to you at this time. She may still have a lot of shame that she lives with. I would concentrate on your bio-father and get to know him, and when (if) she is ready to open her heart to you, then that will be the time to act upon a relationship. I too was adopted, but I knew @ the age of ten. Didn't make it easy, since I grew up wondering my entire life, never having any answers. However, I did find my bio mom when I was 30. Her daughter wanted nothing to do with me. I didn't pressure her to have a relationship with me either. I guess it's truly a shock for everyone! People deal with it differently.
Of course it wasn't God's plan for your bio mom to have an abortion!! She did the right thing and gave you life!! And it sounds like you had great parents that loved you very much!!! Enjoy your bio-dad and press on with life and enjoy your husband to be.
Of course it wasn't God's plan for your bio mom to have an abortion!! She did the right thing and gave you life!! And it sounds like you had great parents that loved you very much!!! Enjoy your bio-dad and press on with life and enjoy your husband to be.
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