Truely Amazed.
Amazed.
I am so amazed at people these days. Lets talk about the magic word, Love. Love is something shared amongst people who would "emotionaly" die if they did not converse with their signifigant other. Like in mariage for instance, thats love, not just tip of the iceberg.
It bugs me so much when I hear people and they talk about love and it's been a short time in a relationship. "Oh but I've liked them for so long before we went out!" Don't try to throw that one at me. Yeah you might have liked them for a long time, but that doesn't count for much. 99% of the time, you're mistaking love for another emotion. Hell, maybe you like being with someone. Maybe you love when someone actually gives you the time of day.
Girls, go into your silent room and write a list of 20 things of why you love your "loved" one. Make it to 20 without repeating pettie items and I might listen to your problems.
I'm sorry I can't edit myself but I am going to use you as an example.
So this girl, likes this guy named Ian a lot. They have started to go out and have been for a month or maybe two, I'm not completely sure. She has written in her journal about how she loves him, she has it in her profile of how she loves him and no one else understands. Recently, he got grounded for ONE month for throwing toilet paper on peoples houses. Now I'm a caring guy who listens to peoples problems. And this girl is devistated because her Ian is grounded for one month.
I've been pondering this for a long time. Trying to find out how girls really work. Trying to understand them further and what not. And this has bewildered me. Maybe that girl wanted to feel like she belonged to something. That she would be missed if she disapeared for some time. I think what this girl is feeling is only the tip of the ice berg. Maybe she is crying out for attention, who knows.
All I've got to say is wait till college to find love, or untill you can put yourself 100% aside for that person you care for. If you bother looking for love within Middle School or High School, you will find your search is a lot harder then it would normally be.
Maybe my past experiences and my general thinking has hardened my heart, who knows. And if you comment me telling me I don't know what I'm talking about, maybe I should post my Stephanie story sometime. I was once "in love" and yes I'll admit I still love the girl, but I hate her at the same time. And yes, it was only the tip.
I am so amazed at people these days. Lets talk about the magic word, Love. Love is something shared amongst people who would "emotionaly" die if they did not converse with their signifigant other. Like in mariage for instance, thats love, not just tip of the iceberg.
It bugs me so much when I hear people and they talk about love and it's been a short time in a relationship. "Oh but I've liked them for so long before we went out!" Don't try to throw that one at me. Yeah you might have liked them for a long time, but that doesn't count for much. 99% of the time, you're mistaking love for another emotion. Hell, maybe you like being with someone. Maybe you love when someone actually gives you the time of day.
Girls, go into your silent room and write a list of 20 things of why you love your "loved" one. Make it to 20 without repeating pettie items and I might listen to your problems.
I'm sorry I can't edit myself but I am going to use you as an example.
So this girl, likes this guy named Ian a lot. They have started to go out and have been for a month or maybe two, I'm not completely sure. She has written in her journal about how she loves him, she has it in her profile of how she loves him and no one else understands. Recently, he got grounded for ONE month for throwing toilet paper on peoples houses. Now I'm a caring guy who listens to peoples problems. And this girl is devistated because her Ian is grounded for one month.
I've been pondering this for a long time. Trying to find out how girls really work. Trying to understand them further and what not. And this has bewildered me. Maybe that girl wanted to feel like she belonged to something. That she would be missed if she disapeared for some time. I think what this girl is feeling is only the tip of the ice berg. Maybe she is crying out for attention, who knows.
All I've got to say is wait till college to find love, or untill you can put yourself 100% aside for that person you care for. If you bother looking for love within Middle School or High School, you will find your search is a lot harder then it would normally be.
Maybe my past experiences and my general thinking has hardened my heart, who knows. And if you comment me telling me I don't know what I'm talking about, maybe I should post my Stephanie story sometime. I was once "in love" and yes I'll admit I still love the girl, but I hate her at the same time. And yes, it was only the tip.