You two need to talk. Now. It's ridiculous. edit: I think she needs to be the one to tell you upfront but it's so fucking stupid how she's like this. Let me know if you need to be filled in if she's not gonna talk.
The way it is right now is just one of the many facets the situation could have turned out to be. I don't want to force anyone to talk, nor do I want anyone to force others to talk on behalf of my sake. As far as I am concerned, she can do what she wants, but that's doesn't mean I cannot do whatever I want.
I agree with Val. I think you need some closure so you know it wasn't your fault, because it isn't. We talked about it in the car last night, and we are both fed up with it. She was ignoring us last night. She even ignored Josh and Kelly. Bitch has got to go...
While it is true that you might think that way, I know it's going to be a case of "easier said than done" if the whole thing is just avoided and all the uncertainty is still there. If it's going to just linger, that will simply grow worse with time.
I want you to know that you have the option of knowing just what is going on. I just don't want you to withdraw again and not talk to anyone because you don't want to trouble them; that honestly scares me because you're my friend.
Both of yall don't have to worry bout me. I'm gonna try and get through this the best I can. You have to realize that this situation is a little different than the "previous" ones I've encountered.
The way I'm feeling now is obviously what I'm going to take and deal with. On the other hand if she starts interfering with my whole process of "moving on" such as making me feel remorse, guilt, or a sense of false hope then we have a problem. Otherwise, she can see me however she would like, and it would be up to her if she wants to still be friends.
edit: I think she needs to be the one to tell you upfront but it's so fucking stupid how she's like this. Let me know if you need to be filled in if she's not gonna talk.
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I want you to know that you have the option of knowing just what is going on. I just don't want you to withdraw again and not talk to anyone because you don't want to trouble them; that honestly scares me because you're my friend.
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The way I'm feeling now is obviously what I'm going to take and deal with. On the other hand if she starts interfering with my whole process of "moving on" such as making me feel remorse, guilt, or a sense of false hope then we have a problem. Otherwise, she can see me however she would like, and it would be up to her if she wants to still be friends.
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