Friends...

[adhira]

People dont give enough importance to friends and friendhip. Specially when they have a boy"friend" or girl"friend". I mean, are they even really friends? How many casual/deep fun conversations do they have... i wonder. I shouldn't say anymore about this because I must admit I know little. I have nothing against having a boyfriend, its just that he/she shouldn't consume so much of your life that you have no one left after they leave. There are people I see and talk to only about once a month, when they have a fight with their boyfriend. I really dont mind if they need a friend to talk to or just hang out with or something. But, I feel almost used when the only time I talk to these people is when they are miserable. What about when I needed a friend? What about the fun stuff that you do with friends? Its unfair to me if they just skip all the fun friends stuff and just come to me when they are miserable. I probably sound like a really mean person right now, so I will just stop here.
Then again, there are those people who remember you in good AND bad times... :) Margie called yesterday! YAY! I had been feeling pretty lonely and bored (on a friday night, by yourself in a room makes everything seem worse by ten fold). BUT then, all of a sudden you get a phone call from your wonderfully amazing friend and things simply get better. Thank you for calling me Margie... you have perfect timing. Whenever I think I need a friend, you appear out of the blue :) It was fun talking to you.

Cleaning up after the ship-wreck...