Bud-Nipping
This is Rumour Control, here are the facts:
People have once again been spreading rumours about me, and while this post may be seen as rising to it, it's actually an attempt to put a stop to it. Contrary to what a number of people are saying, I have not lost my virginity. I am not ashamed to say that. Obviously it is something I rather were not the case, but as it is I have no qualms about saying so.
The reason I am being uptight about this is the same historical precedent which is evidence that the rumours are false - the girl in question, whom I am not naming (most of you have presumably heard the rumours so know who it is anyway) does NOT deserve to be constantly questioned and indeed victimised because of something that (a) she hasn't done and (b) there would be nothing wrong with doing if she had. I refer to you to Rach, Ali, and even Fiona, all of whom were subject to many rumours and much speculation that something has/had/was or should have happened between us. The reality is this would never have happened, we are good friends and nothing more. The same is true here. For two years people were saying things about the above named, for the love of God people - take a fucking hint!
I am many things, not all of them positive. I am not, however, a liar and I DO NOT appreciate the suggestion that I am lying about this.
Believe whatever the hell you want, that's your choice. Make of this post whatever the hell you want, again that's your choice. But I'm getting increasingly pissed off at people constantly assuming that whenever I become friends with a girl, something has/will/should happen, and consequently everyone and their brother, whenever they see us together, making suggestive comments, asking when she's gonna shag me, etc. All my family do it, all my friends do it, randoms on the forum do it - its fucking annoying and its fucking uncalled for, so give it a rest, right now. It ends here. Most of my friends are female, that will probably continue to be the case. It means fuck all, deal with it.
Also, although you might consider me fair game, I know many do, think about the girl for God's sake! It has in the past become genuine bullying of her, and that's just not on. You wanna target me, that's one thing, But don't bring other people into it for fuck's sake.
People have once again been spreading rumours about me, and while this post may be seen as rising to it, it's actually an attempt to put a stop to it. Contrary to what a number of people are saying, I have not lost my virginity. I am not ashamed to say that. Obviously it is something I rather were not the case, but as it is I have no qualms about saying so.
The reason I am being uptight about this is the same historical precedent which is evidence that the rumours are false - the girl in question, whom I am not naming (most of you have presumably heard the rumours so know who it is anyway) does NOT deserve to be constantly questioned and indeed victimised because of something that (a) she hasn't done and (b) there would be nothing wrong with doing if she had. I refer to you to Rach, Ali, and even Fiona, all of whom were subject to many rumours and much speculation that something has/had/was or should have happened between us. The reality is this would never have happened, we are good friends and nothing more. The same is true here. For two years people were saying things about the above named, for the love of God people - take a fucking hint!
I am many things, not all of them positive. I am not, however, a liar and I DO NOT appreciate the suggestion that I am lying about this.
Believe whatever the hell you want, that's your choice. Make of this post whatever the hell you want, again that's your choice. But I'm getting increasingly pissed off at people constantly assuming that whenever I become friends with a girl, something has/will/should happen, and consequently everyone and their brother, whenever they see us together, making suggestive comments, asking when she's gonna shag me, etc. All my family do it, all my friends do it, randoms on the forum do it - its fucking annoying and its fucking uncalled for, so give it a rest, right now. It ends here. Most of my friends are female, that will probably continue to be the case. It means fuck all, deal with it.
Also, although you might consider me fair game, I know many do, think about the girl for God's sake! It has in the past become genuine bullying of her, and that's just not on. You wanna target me, that's one thing, But don't bring other people into it for fuck's sake.