I am not dead, just even busier than usual. I have been working 10-12 hour days every day for the last month or so. I have a conference coming up in the first week of May. The data for that talk is not something I have obtained yet, so you can understand my panic stringent work ethic. Anyway, some accumulated news and random bits of information:
It sounds like your roommate is being really good to you right now. I am in favor of this.
Wow, your mom and my mom should attend a workshop together on Driving Your Graduate Student Child Crazy. You have my sympathies. My personal favorite is when she questions me about exactly what research I'm doing, lets me talk for a while, and then reveals she didn't understand more than two words. Then she wants me to explain in a way she understands. This happens Every. Time. We. Speak. I spend SO much time thinking about how to tell people about my work on every level (from technical grant proposals to teaching children about birds) that I don't want to have to think about translating it for my mom every time we talk.
Also, Lucinda and Zila (my car) should meet. They seem to be timing their misbehaviors together, and for the least optimal times.
Yay for exercising making you feel better the rest of the day! Kudos to you for making time for exercise. My own exercise resolutions have fallen by the wayside.
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My roommate is being fabulous about all this. I am trying to help out as much as I can, but she is still doing the lion's share of the cooking. I think that I must look even more tired and stressed than I feel, because she is being super helpful.
She has been worse than usual lately. My sister said that, apparently, my mom is fishing for info b/c she heard from Mikey that I told my dad I had a job offer or something. I was like "I have a job offer?" So yeah. Don't know what's happening there, but I will have to clear the air.
Well, Lucinda almost killed me on the way to work this morning, so I hope Zila is behaving better.
Thanks! It really makes a huge difference having a partner. I don't always make it, b/c sometimes I have to go in early and start lab work. But 5 days out of 7 is pretty good.
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Zila has not yet attempted murder, but she did get a flat on the interstate last week. For some reason no tire place in Abq has Honda Fit tires in stock, so she's still got a donut, so I'm not supposed to drive her. And my last spare bike tube got thorned recently, and without a car to drive to the bike shop to get a new one.... you see the problem. Matt finally took me to a bike shop today and then fixed my bike for me, so I can get to school tomorrow without damaging Zila further. Because of course this all happens when Matt is a couple hundred miles away for work and can't help me.
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And isn't that they way of things? Everything broken with no one to help. I am lucky that my roommate has been able to drive me around a bit.
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