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Personal:
So, when I'm interesting/dating in someone, I tend to imagine what it would be like with them in my life. Like if we were together, or if they lived with me. Does anyone else do that/used to do that when they were single?
That's one reason I won't date just anyone because if they don't fit, then there's no reason to basically waste my time (so many other things to be doing lol).
May be one reason I fall so hard/so much.
For the first time in a long time I'm currently interested in two people at the same time, and it's weird. Maybe it's good for me to allow me to be able to pull back from that.
Fandom:
Okay, so on Hawaii 5-0 I like Catherine, but hate her with Steve. Most likely because I ship Steve/Danny. I only tolerate Steve/Danny/Cat stories if Cat is basically handing Steve over to Danny.
I understand about her being a good character, but why can't she be a character on her own, without having to be supported by Steve-like if she meets the rest of the team, and becomes friends with them, as well.
I don't ship Steve or Danny with anyone else at all, especially not Kono.
Which is weird, because I totally don't mind seeing my other big ship-SGA John/Rodney-with other people (except Rodney/Keller because it was out of nowhere, and Keller is a horribly unethical doctor), like John/Cam, Rodney/ONeill. This may be because it's no longer on the air, and I don't have to see one of my pair actually with someone else. Partner betrayal/infidelity is a big no for me, so 'seeing it' on screen is what I think upsets me. And I don't want to not ship Steve/Danny because that's a big part of the fun of the whole thing (besides Kono being a total badass rookie, and Chin being just badass).
I was also wondering why I adore slash over het. I actually recently read a genderfuck(adore genderfuck) where Danny was a girl, and she got together with Steve. Liked the story up to where she got pregnant, and it was all happily ever after-perfect little all-American family unit. That's not what I will ever have, and really don't want. I think one reason I really like slash is because it's a different kind of family/relationship, and I can relate to it better. Also, you know, hot guys.
So, when I'm interesting/dating in someone, I tend to imagine what it would be like with them in my life. Like if we were together, or if they lived with me. Does anyone else do that/used to do that when they were single?
That's one reason I won't date just anyone because if they don't fit, then there's no reason to basically waste my time (so many other things to be doing lol).
May be one reason I fall so hard/so much.
For the first time in a long time I'm currently interested in two people at the same time, and it's weird. Maybe it's good for me to allow me to be able to pull back from that.
Fandom:
Okay, so on Hawaii 5-0 I like Catherine, but hate her with Steve. Most likely because I ship Steve/Danny. I only tolerate Steve/Danny/Cat stories if Cat is basically handing Steve over to Danny.
I understand about her being a good character, but why can't she be a character on her own, without having to be supported by Steve-like if she meets the rest of the team, and becomes friends with them, as well.
I don't ship Steve or Danny with anyone else at all, especially not Kono.
Which is weird, because I totally don't mind seeing my other big ship-SGA John/Rodney-with other people (except Rodney/Keller because it was out of nowhere, and Keller is a horribly unethical doctor), like John/Cam, Rodney/ONeill. This may be because it's no longer on the air, and I don't have to see one of my pair actually with someone else. Partner betrayal/infidelity is a big no for me, so 'seeing it' on screen is what I think upsets me. And I don't want to not ship Steve/Danny because that's a big part of the fun of the whole thing (besides Kono being a total badass rookie, and Chin being just badass).
I was also wondering why I adore slash over het. I actually recently read a genderfuck(adore genderfuck) where Danny was a girl, and she got together with Steve. Liked the story up to where she got pregnant, and it was all happily ever after-perfect little all-American family unit. That's not what I will ever have, and really don't want. I think one reason I really like slash is because it's a different kind of family/relationship, and I can relate to it better. Also, you know, hot guys.