Decide.
I don't claim to be the easiest person to get along with.
But I'm conflicted.
Do you 'try' and tolerate what's an irritating/frustrating trait till you can't, then speak out?
Or do you say from the beginning, I have a problem with the fact that you smoke/fixate on small grammatical errors/etc., it's irritating as well, and still try and be friends anyway?
Personally, I'd really rather you just tell me upfront?
I don't want to be blindsided by frustrations that boil up when things get heated, when people are tired or whatever.
I'd rather always know that there's this thing that's going to be a sorespot.
Just. So. Frustrated.
But I'm conflicted.
Do you 'try' and tolerate what's an irritating/frustrating trait till you can't, then speak out?
Or do you say from the beginning, I have a problem with the fact that you smoke/fixate on small grammatical errors/etc., it's irritating as well, and still try and be friends anyway?
Personally, I'd really rather you just tell me upfront?
I don't want to be blindsided by frustrations that boil up when things get heated, when people are tired or whatever.
I'd rather always know that there's this thing that's going to be a sorespot.
Just. So. Frustrated.