sorry for my attitude during the meeting. but i was kinda bothered by it too. one thing is my expectation to you as co-president. if you say you are the leader of the group, you sometimes need to swallow up some feelings and let things keep rolling. once you get pissed and back fire at others, esp during the meeting, only that attitude could show other members your dedication to the group, even if you didn't mean it, and i know you didn't. it's more about managing your own feelings and utilizing interpersonal skills, which are the skills i need to improve too. another thing is people are really crunky toward the end of the semester, including you and me. some people don't even bother coming to fucking meeting. whateva. we gotta do whatever we gotta do. if somebody doesn't wanna do it, somebody else who can be responsible and capable to deal with the work has to take it over. otherwise, the whole event is fucked. nothing is gonna come out. if you (not you specifically) still feels to not wanting to do something, feel free not to take the responsibility. it will just show how much the person can do. if we, or i, am missing out or totally not listening to what you are saying, im sorry. i don't necessarily mean to, if im doing anything like that. when i don't have specific reasons to back up or deny the idea, i tend to move more with instinct. also, if you are gonna complain after the meeting or whatever the space, feel free to say that during the meeting too. it might be easier. just say what you wanna say, not as much to interrupt the meeting though. just say with some convincing reasons, so that people agree with you. ok this comment is fucking long. sorry for that too. -jumpei
another thing is people are really crunky toward the end of the semester, including you and me. some people don't even bother coming to fucking meeting. whateva. we gotta do whatever we gotta do. if somebody doesn't wanna do it, somebody else who can be responsible and capable to deal with the work has to take it over. otherwise, the whole event is fucked. nothing is gonna come out. if you (not you specifically) still feels to not wanting to do something, feel free not to take the responsibility. it will just show how much the person can do.
if we, or i, am missing out or totally not listening to what you are saying, im sorry. i don't necessarily mean to, if im doing anything like that. when i don't have specific reasons to back up or deny the idea, i tend to move more with instinct. also, if you are gonna complain after the meeting or whatever the space, feel free to say that during the meeting too. it might be easier. just say what you wanna say, not as much to interrupt the meeting though. just say with some convincing reasons, so that people agree with you.
ok this comment is fucking long. sorry for that too.
-jumpei
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