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May 13, 2010 00:11

[The following is all but whispered.]

If you haven't read Dr. Chase's recent announcement, please do so immediately.  Avoid the sheep if possible.  Refrain from fighting them unless you know what you're doing.  Quarantine yourself if you are bitten.

These sheep apparently hunt in flocks; the attacks I've seen were carried out by anywhere from four ( Read more... )

at least it can't get worse, justin: sheep hunter, shilo, i take notes for fun, curse, playing detective, psa, common sense: use it, taking this seriously

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had_not_lived May 13 2010, 22:10:26 UTC
They've been ignoring me, far as I can tell.

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absinthe_eyed May 14 2010, 01:07:35 UTC
Good. Stay inside anyway.

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had_not_lived May 15 2010, 01:37:36 UTC
I have been, since I started to hear about people getting hurt.

Do you think it means anything?

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absinthe_eyed May 15 2010, 02:30:22 UTC
I've heard that these sheep are getting revenge--getting back at those of us who killed the lambs.

May I ask you about something wholly unrelated?

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had_not_lived May 15 2010, 15:38:39 UTC
You think they're ignoring me because I didn't? Maybe.

Sure. What is it?

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absinthe_eyed May 15 2010, 19:57:14 UTC
I don't know. It's a theory.

[Filtered to Neil]

Thank you.

Is there a way to resolve an argument when apologizing for an action isn't enough?

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[Filtered] had_not_lived May 15 2010, 21:09:45 UTC
I'm not sure, I guess it depends on who you're fighting with and what you did.

What's wrong?

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[Filtered] absinthe_eyed May 17 2010, 02:33:55 UTC
Shilo. We're not fighting so much as alternately arguing with and ignoring each other. She's upset because I went out to investigate the sheep and told her to stay inside. There may be more to it than that, but her complaints weren't specific.

You and Todd have argued, haven't you? And you were able to resolve the problem?

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[Filtered] had_not_lived May 17 2010, 02:43:37 UTC
Well... yeah, but to tell you the truth when we've really argued, really seriously, usually we got over it because something awful happened and we forgot.

I think... maybe the first thing to do, is ask her why she's so upset? I'm sure you had reasons for telling her not to go out, but I'm sure she had reasons for being mad at you, too, and maybe you need to understand those before you know how to make it better.

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[Filtered] absinthe_eyed May 17 2010, 02:48:09 UTC
Oh.

I think she's drawing parallels between this incident and her father's tendency to lock her in her room. I've explained that this is different--that I was doing my job and there was a genuine threat that she was unprepared to face--but that makes her more upset.

Maybe I should make something moderately awful happen.

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[Filtered] had_not_lived May 17 2010, 02:53:24 UTC
Do not even think about making something awful happen! That's not-- that isn't what I meant, and if you do something it'll only make things worse. I mean that... Eventually something happened that reminded us that there were more important things than whatever we were fighting about.

And... well... Why did her father lock her in her room?

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[Filtered] absinthe_eyed May 17 2010, 02:57:23 UTC
I was joking. Possibly.

He invented a lie about her health that gave him a reason to exercise his almost pathological overprotectiveness. I didn't do that.

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[Filtered] had_not_lived May 17 2010, 02:59:34 UTC
Sometimes I can't tell.

But I'm sure he told her that he was locking her in her room to keep her safe, that she wouldn't be able to take care of herself if she went outside.

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[Filtered] absinthe_eyed May 17 2010, 03:02:39 UTC
I can't always tell, either.

As far as I know, he did. I didn't tell Shilo I was leaving, but I also didn't lock her in. She could have left the apartment if she had wanted to, although I advised her against it. I don't understand what the problem is.

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[Filtered] had_not_lived May 17 2010, 03:05:35 UTC
That's a question you should probably ask her. I don't know Shilo well enough to say.

But I can see how she'd find the situations similar, can't you?

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[Filtered] absinthe_eyed May 17 2010, 03:06:57 UTC
She doesn't want to talk to me.

I can. I also explained why they weren't as well as I could. She wants something else.

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