I'm glad you're holidays didn't go as bad as previously expected. I hope that you took some of the advice that some of us gave you and used it to have a more positive outlook towards Christmas and holidays of that nature.
The X-Bot is awesome. It's awesome that you have such thoughtful and supportive friends that would not only go out of their way to get you something that great, but also the caring kind who would think of it in the first place.
As for relationships, you probably dont need to change much in general, but rather change for the person you are with. Everyone is different, and as such, want/need different things from you. What one person might find to be one of your better qualities, another might hate it. I learned a long time ago that you can only be yourself and hope people accept you for who you are. On that note, you can only change so much to make the person you are with happy without completely sacrificing who you actually are. I hope you understand what I'm trying to say here and I hope it helps you somewhat. I don't know you in person or anything, but you seem like a genuinely nice guy and I would hate to see you change from the honest "wear-your-heart-on-your-sleeve" guy into a generic "go-with-the-flow" person for the sake of trying to find a good relationship. The right woman will come along eventually, and when she does, you will be very happy that you didn't compromise who you are to get her... and so will she.
The X-Bot is awesome. It's awesome that you have such thoughtful and supportive friends that would not only go out of their way to get you something that great, but also the caring kind who would think of it in the first place.
As for relationships, you probably dont need to change much in general, but rather change for the person you are with. Everyone is different, and as such, want/need different things from you. What one person might find to be one of your better qualities, another might hate it. I learned a long time ago that you can only be yourself and hope people accept you for who you are. On that note, you can only change so much to make the person you are with happy without completely sacrificing who you actually are. I hope you understand what I'm trying to say here and I hope it helps you somewhat. I don't know you in person or anything, but you seem like a genuinely nice guy and I would hate to see you change from the honest "wear-your-heart-on-your-sleeve" guy into a generic "go-with-the-flow" person for the sake of trying to find a good relationship. The right woman will come along eventually, and when she does, you will be very happy that you didn't compromise who you are to get her... and so will she.
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