No more sex for me for a LOOOOOOOONG time!

[abren81]

Normally I would post a recap of my weekend, which I will but I am kind of disappointed about how this weekend turned out. I won’t write specifics out of respect of some of the people involved but I feel that I could use some friendly advice

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[insideck]

It certainly does sound like you had an interesting weekend. That's cool that you had fun though, and it's even cooler that you've decided to only do things you won't regret later. That's the only way to live life. I'm Caleb...the one Jax was posting about. Like I've already said in my replies to him, had he posted the rest of the conversation, everybody would fully understand. We were talking and not having the best conversation in the whole world, and in the middle of it, he tells me to tell him to fuck off or something of that nature. I was confused, and asked why. He said, because then it would show that I actually had some emotions, because I wasn't a robot, I was a person. I told him that would be disrespectful, and I had no reason to do so. Then, he just kept saying things to me to see if I would react to them. And, since I don't play games, I just decided to give him what he wanted. He wanted me to be mean to him awfully bad, so I just did it to make him happy. He obviously wanted to have a reason to hate me, so I made it easier for him. I care about the kid a hella lot, but he just doesn't realize what he puts people through sometimes, as I'm sure I don't realize the same about myself. Well, just wanted to explain that to you...not really sure why. You were just the person who had the most unbiased reply that was the most mature, and I figured you'd understand the most what really was going on.

[abren81]

Yeah.
I don't understand people today tho. People are so quick to burn bridges all the time. I'm sure you guys will talk again. Then again, I've been through the same situation and know of a couple of people who still continue not to want to talk to me. It's kinda hurts but a majority of the people I've talked shit to have usually came around after awhile. I think telling them off lets out alot of frustration and can turn a bad situation good with a little release and some time. I hate being civil and passive aggresive later on. I'd rather say what I want to say, let things cool down and be friends again or what not.