Filtered to David and Gavin
David, Gavin? I spoke with Lavannah.
She's just scared. That's all this is. She nearly died, and if it hadn't been for Louise, she would have. And she's not recovering as quickly as she'd like. She lost five years of her life to a hospital for people who are mentally unwell when she was perfectly sane. And now she feels like life is short and she has to do everything now.
That's the only reason she wanted to get pregnant right now. When I asked her if she was actually ready to be a mother, her answer was "why, certainly not!" So...we chatted a little there. I told her she has time. She just has to learn to take it.
But I am not going to be the one to bring her out of this in the end. Now that you know what the issue is, it's up to you. As for the strange things she's been saying, she said it's easier to hide behind them than to show she's afraid. Just be there for her, everything's going to be just fine.
She's just scared. That's all this is. She nearly died, and if it hadn't been for Louise, she would have. And she's not recovering as quickly as she'd like. She lost five years of her life to a hospital for people who are mentally unwell when she was perfectly sane. And now she feels like life is short and she has to do everything now.
That's the only reason she wanted to get pregnant right now. When I asked her if she was actually ready to be a mother, her answer was "why, certainly not!" So...we chatted a little there. I told her she has time. She just has to learn to take it.
But I am not going to be the one to bring her out of this in the end. Now that you know what the issue is, it's up to you. As for the strange things she's been saying, she said it's easier to hide behind them than to show she's afraid. Just be there for her, everything's going to be just fine.