holy scheiße
ok, there's no way I'll last until the end of the year!!! My brain's dying!!!! WAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!
Next item of business. . .
Ok, I don't like unhealthy relationships and I don't like for my friends to be in unhealthy relationships either. . .unfortunately I feel that I've always got to make sure they stay out of them. . .
My bud Jackie just got out of a relationship Monday (her bf cheated on her sat night) and on wed she was ALL OVER this guy. The poor guy is really sweet and I don't think he'd fair well getting his heart broken. Well she's leading him on and he's bitting, not nibbling. . .i mean chomping down on it. So I decided to at least talk to her and tell her whats going on from my point of view. I told her that she needs to deal with what happened with her ex before moving on to another guy (she never dealt with it btw mon when she found out and wed). I also told her that what she's feeling right now is something that is not real (in so many words). She lost a guy that knew her well to a girl that he barely knows in one night; she's going to want to feel redemption. I said a few more things to her completely without an attitude and without any sort of malice. I told her I knew what she felt like. . . well she got reeeeeally pissy and said, " oh yeah???? why don't we start with how many boyfriends you've had." Wow, that was below the belt. . .
Ok, I know that I've only ever had two boyfriends technically, sure one was in 5th grade, but the other was a true boyfriend. If lasted only two weeks because it was on my NYLF trip and he had to go back to St. Charles, LOUISIANA.
And now that its getting around Valentine's Day and everyone, it seems, has a boyfriend BUT ME.
So anyone reading this, what would you have done?? What would you do now?? She won't admit that she's leading him on and I don't think I wanna talk to him. . .I dunno. . .HELP!!!!PLEASE!!!!
Next item of business. . .
Ok, I don't like unhealthy relationships and I don't like for my friends to be in unhealthy relationships either. . .unfortunately I feel that I've always got to make sure they stay out of them. . .
My bud Jackie just got out of a relationship Monday (her bf cheated on her sat night) and on wed she was ALL OVER this guy. The poor guy is really sweet and I don't think he'd fair well getting his heart broken. Well she's leading him on and he's bitting, not nibbling. . .i mean chomping down on it. So I decided to at least talk to her and tell her whats going on from my point of view. I told her that she needs to deal with what happened with her ex before moving on to another guy (she never dealt with it btw mon when she found out and wed). I also told her that what she's feeling right now is something that is not real (in so many words). She lost a guy that knew her well to a girl that he barely knows in one night; she's going to want to feel redemption. I said a few more things to her completely without an attitude and without any sort of malice. I told her I knew what she felt like. . . well she got reeeeeally pissy and said, " oh yeah???? why don't we start with how many boyfriends you've had." Wow, that was below the belt. . .
Ok, I know that I've only ever had two boyfriends technically, sure one was in 5th grade, but the other was a true boyfriend. If lasted only two weeks because it was on my NYLF trip and he had to go back to St. Charles, LOUISIANA.
And now that its getting around Valentine's Day and everyone, it seems, has a boyfriend BUT ME.
So anyone reading this, what would you have done?? What would you do now?? She won't admit that she's leading him on and I don't think I wanna talk to him. . .I dunno. . .HELP!!!!PLEASE!!!!