Something in my craw...

Dec 10, 2008 13:03

I was asked if had any Moral Qualms about posting private emails from people who don’t know that they will be placed on a public forum.

Hmmmm.  Yes I do.  Each time I post one.  I think it over and take many things into account:
What does this entail? 
Is this a secret? 
Whose Secret is it?
What did I do to incite it? 
Does it reveal personal information?
Is it funny or just mean?
what is my reaction to it?

I dont' post every email I get.  Not even every geocaching email I get only a few that are relevant or I want to remember what happened.  I hate keeping email.   So now and again I post one.  But I didn't post the email I got this morning.  Where I don't mind being told I'm wrong and then given a clearcut explanation of how wrong I am... it really wasn't something I wanted printed... not for my sake, but for the senders.  He told me I could, but I thought better of it.  I would have put all responses and rebuttals on here as well, but it really didn't need to be put out there.

I have a 2 general rules, don't say it if you don't want it repeated and Don't write it if you don't want it read.  I try not to be ugly in emails unless provoked and now-a-days, rarely then.  I always assume that more then the reader will see my emails... I work in the corporate world and the company owns my emails - even the private ones.  This article  explains it better.  I always expect my email to be forwarded to anyone and everyone so I write them accordingly.

I live my life mainly in public.  Not like a celebrity... though I like to think of myself as one.  But with very few secrets.  Ask me a question, I will most likely tell you an answer without hesitation.  Either the truth (most of the time) or Nunya(not as often as I should).  I'm pretty much an open book.

Do I believe there is a time for secrets?  Yes.  So can I keep a secret... yeah.  I do all the time.  Mostly because I forget them shortly after I'm told, only to remember them usually after the fact.  Which is pretty handy don't ya think?

rules, emails, philisophical

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