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Oh. And anyone who reads this. Guess what, it's my Lj. Deal.
FtM's. Jeez. I think it's time for most FtM's to get their
act together.Sheesh. It's all well and good for you to be
friendly and seek support from your girlfriends, friends,
and other FtM's while you're transitioning but after you're
passing most of the time, you cut loose. Suddenly your gf,
the one who supported you in your changes even from back
when you were female identified, isn't femme enough. You feel the
need to cheat, physically abuse and emotionally abuse them .
Play off what you do to them , make them out to be the "crazy bitch",
the "paranoid or jealous" gf to your 'buddies'.
Now, understand that I am not against FtM's in and of themselves.
I myself have issues of sorts with the gender I was reared as, and
am seeking now to correct that as I see fit. I agree completely with most
of the means used to reach that change; altered clothing and look, hormones,
surgery.
I do not , however, agree with asking your gf to alter her orientation for you.
I do not agree with asking your gf to alter her mode of dress to appear more femme,
less dyke so that you pass better.
I do not agree with closing off emotions that you had no problem sharing before you
started hanging out with your 'boys', do not agree with the sudden need to check out more
girls and see how you pass with them when already in a relationship, do not agree with
acting like a biological TEENAGE male.
Then again, if that's how you guys want to be seen, then more props to you,
for I've seen less then half that do not immediatly engage in some stupid behavior as
soon as they pass well or go on T.
This includes;
Cheating- repeatedly
Lying more
Making out with other girls while knowing your gf loves you to much to leave you
Asking her to alter her looks, identity etc.
Being physically abusive or easily angered, then BLAMING the girl for her behavior.
Remember. Bio boys outgrow that behavior once they hit their 20's mostly (taking for
granted that there are exceptions to every rule, etc). while you guys are JUST
starting that shit.
I guess it's better to alienate friends and girlfriends who stayed with you thru everything,
just to have you drop them because they dont make you pass, or because they knew you
"back then".
I guess that's supposed to make you the better man huh?