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i wanted to make a list of lessons i've learned from this whole stupid ordeal:
1. no more live-in girlfriends
2. how to say "no"
3. to be less empathetic/put myself and my best interests first
4. that not everyone is as well intended as i am
5. i have extremely high standards
6. i have anger issues
7. some people aren't worth my time
8. i'm not as strong as i thought i was
9. you can't help someone who doesn't want it
things i still need to work on:
1. confronting someone when i've got a problem with them
2. addressing the problem before i'm on the verge of explosion
3. not getting ill at the thought of sex
4. not letting people take advantage of me
5. i have anger issues
this list will periodically be updated as more things come to me.