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This is pretty much the only drawback that I have when it comes to relationships.
The only thing about them that I really don't like.
The worry.
The uncertainty.
The feeling that I have right now.
That feeling in your gut that you have done something wrong without even realizing it.
That feeling that the one that you love more then the world, is about to leave you.
Ignored me for almost 2 days, wouldn't respond to the phone or texts. So what am I thinking?
That he either (best case scenario) he lost his phone,
that he got hurt and is in the hospital or something,
or that I "did something wrong" and he's thinking of leaving me, like he has before.
It's toucher just laying in my bed thinking of all the 'what if's.'
because I of course can't find the motivation to go out and do something to get my mind off of it
I know he is stressed...but when he finally contacted me, all he said to me was,
"I'm fine, I'm just really aggravated with you."
Nothing more, nothing less.
I have tried contacting him since to say I'm sorry for whatever I did (which I don't know what I could of done to deserve this) but still, no response. No "I love you", no explanation to why he's mad...nothing.
If it's what it COULD be, him getting aggravated that I wanted to spend more time with him this week because we are both starting school next week, that should be something to quickly let go of and not bother someone this much, especially when he knows how horrible my anxiety has been and how doing this shit makes it even worse.
Or he could be mad that Brian, his girlfriend & I were making fun of him (but COMPLETELY JOKING AROUND, which was obvious) but then why is he not ignoring Brian & his girlfriend? Why am I the target?
Every time he gets stressed out something like this happens and he leaves me, and that is what I am paranoid about happening again. The second I hear my text go off, my stomach does a giant churn, my heart flutters, and I am gripped with fear.
I'm not going to be able to focus at work tomorrow, I can't and haven't ate except for a popsicle yesterday & every time I am actually able to fall asleep I wake up to a nightmare of this happening all over again, following by not being able to fall back asleep after.
I don't know how much longer this ignoring me will be, but he never goes this long doing so.
I just wish he wasn't being so immature about it and playing this game with me.
Maybe I'm acting crazy about it, but I am really fearfull that I am about to lose him yet again.
I hate this feeling...
The only thing about them that I really don't like.
The worry.
The uncertainty.
The feeling that I have right now.
That feeling in your gut that you have done something wrong without even realizing it.
That feeling that the one that you love more then the world, is about to leave you.
Ignored me for almost 2 days, wouldn't respond to the phone or texts. So what am I thinking?
That he either (best case scenario) he lost his phone,
that he got hurt and is in the hospital or something,
or that I "did something wrong" and he's thinking of leaving me, like he has before.
It's toucher just laying in my bed thinking of all the 'what if's.'
because I of course can't find the motivation to go out and do something to get my mind off of it
I know he is stressed...but when he finally contacted me, all he said to me was,
"I'm fine, I'm just really aggravated with you."
Nothing more, nothing less.
I have tried contacting him since to say I'm sorry for whatever I did (which I don't know what I could of done to deserve this) but still, no response. No "I love you", no explanation to why he's mad...nothing.
If it's what it COULD be, him getting aggravated that I wanted to spend more time with him this week because we are both starting school next week, that should be something to quickly let go of and not bother someone this much, especially when he knows how horrible my anxiety has been and how doing this shit makes it even worse.
Or he could be mad that Brian, his girlfriend & I were making fun of him (but COMPLETELY JOKING AROUND, which was obvious) but then why is he not ignoring Brian & his girlfriend? Why am I the target?
Every time he gets stressed out something like this happens and he leaves me, and that is what I am paranoid about happening again. The second I hear my text go off, my stomach does a giant churn, my heart flutters, and I am gripped with fear.
I'm not going to be able to focus at work tomorrow, I can't and haven't ate except for a popsicle yesterday & every time I am actually able to fall asleep I wake up to a nightmare of this happening all over again, following by not being able to fall back asleep after.
I don't know how much longer this ignoring me will be, but he never goes this long doing so.
I just wish he wasn't being so immature about it and playing this game with me.
Maybe I'm acting crazy about it, but I am really fearfull that I am about to lose him yet again.
I hate this feeling...