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My family and I have made a lot of emotional progress I guess you could say in the last few days. It was such a fucking shock that we all completely lost it (Dad included) and kind of just started mourning for my dad then and there.
I thought about it and realized that the last thing I would want if I had an illness is for my loved ones to weep infront of me as if I had a snowball's chance in hell of surviving. I apologized to my dad for freaking out when he needed us all to keep it together for him.
After a butt-load of research and talking with LOTS of people with similar experiences, I think we all realize that my dad has every reason to be optimistic. Luckily the doctors caught the shit early. I just wish that my dad would do himself a favor and stay the hell away from my Grandmother. The woman means well, but her negativity is sufficating.
So he goes in to see the cancer specialist tomorrow. For all of you that have religion, please send some good vibes/thoughts/prayers ext. my dad's way. Thanks.
I thought about it and realized that the last thing I would want if I had an illness is for my loved ones to weep infront of me as if I had a snowball's chance in hell of surviving. I apologized to my dad for freaking out when he needed us all to keep it together for him.
After a butt-load of research and talking with LOTS of people with similar experiences, I think we all realize that my dad has every reason to be optimistic. Luckily the doctors caught the shit early. I just wish that my dad would do himself a favor and stay the hell away from my Grandmother. The woman means well, but her negativity is sufficating.
So he goes in to see the cancer specialist tomorrow. For all of you that have religion, please send some good vibes/thoughts/prayers ext. my dad's way. Thanks.