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This is from a book about dating guys….

“It’s hard.  We’re taught that in life, we should try to look on the bright side, to be optimistic.  Not in this case.  In this case, look on the dark side.  Assume rejection first.  Assume you’re the rule, not the exception.  It’s intoxicatingly liberating.  But we also know it’s not an easy concept.

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No Way, Berttooooo

[anonymous]

If you need to know what guys are thinking, just ask them. Ask once though-we dont like to be asked more than once-plus we answer for free, not 19.95. Writers from sex and the city may know what the gurls are thinking, but not the guys-plus its different with each guy. if u need any advice on guys-go straight to them.

Re: No Way, Berttooooo

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this book is written by a guy with the help of a girl, and he explains all the shit he used to do when he was a pimp, now he is happily married...

just read it! dont be cheap lol
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Re: No Way, Berttooooo

[anonymous]

True, but not all guys are like him so his testimony is biased. all guys are horny, but theyre not all pimps

Re: No Way, Berttooooo

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this is very true, not all guys r like that, but its not like he is making guys look like the devil
he def doesnt do that, he just said that guys would rather lie than say "hey listen i dont think we can make this work, i'm not into u anymore"
there is a section called "And if You Don't Believe Greg.."
there r polls, starting with 'we pulled a 100 guys and they all said.. blah blah.. one even said "balh blah" to back him up ya know
and the things he said that guys do when they show they love a girl, is everything i have gotten before
like he (u know who i mean) really does/did love me, and i took it for granted, just realizing it now with this book
so for the most part, in my opinion he is right

i'm putting u on my list of people who i have to let borrow this book.. ur #5 i think lol

Re: No Way, Berttooooo

[anonymous]

those are good points, esp. if you have guys backing them up. i guess id be interested to see what they say about us(God knows im not going to go out and get it myself). what id like is a book to figure you girls out, that would be a blessing. one reason why guys lie is cause of how emotional girls get when you try talking to them about things like that. plus guys bein horny is a constant, and we dont ever know what the hell your thinking unless u say something-that contributes to the way we act around you also. If we knew body signals and you spoke about different stuff like that i think relationships wouldnt end so fast-not that all do.