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First and foremost, I want to let all of you know that this is going to be just a huge compilation of all my thoughts. Most of which were inspired by todays events.
I was forced by my Mom to watch Lifetime. Lets just say this, that stupid mini series "The 60's" is pretty bad.
But, anyways...here I go
PS...if this is the first post youve seen me make in a while, its because I took you off my friends list.
Why is it that America is so hung on whats "right?" It seems a lot of people do/say things not because they mean it but because its expected. Example: You hurt someone with the intention of harming them and afterward you say sorry. Now, why the hell would you do it if you were sorry? Its obvious you dont mean it.
Now, the argument of "Well, at the time I meant it but now that I think about it, Im sorry" Fuck that. Its just a horrible way to look past your responsibilities. Saying sorry seems to give the victim a sense of forgiveness. But, lets look at the fact. You were hurt in some way. Is that ok? No. Maybe Im being too hard, but, lets face it...today, people are all about themselves.
So, Im going down the street with my friend Ryan and his girlfriend. She is driving. Someone lets us into the lane in Hartford rush hour traffic. Thats a rare occasion right there. Michelle just drives. She doesnt thank the person who let her in. I mentioned this and she barked back "Well, if I did that, no one would thank me." What kind mentality is that? Just because someone doesnt show gratuity, doesnt mean every person is like that.
This is a major reason why most Americans are rude. We often associate one persons actions with every other person. Example: A business owner hires an older lady. She is slower then most workers and often loses money. The business owner fires her and vows never to hire an eldery person again. Is that fair? No. I know pleanty of 65+ year old people who are just fit and able as the average 35 year old. I think this mentality is just a sad way to catagorzie people.
On the subject of placing people in categories, Im sick of people asking me if Im into "black or white" women. thats a pretty shallow question. I dont think the skin color matters. Its the person. Another thing is when people describe someone like this "Oh, did you see that black guy walk over there?" Thats fucked. You never hear someone go "Hey, did you see that white lady fall?" Why is it that people point out black people, but not white? Is it a way for society to sub-consiously condesend black people? Who knows?
Im gonna take a break..Im gonna update soon
I was forced by my Mom to watch Lifetime. Lets just say this, that stupid mini series "The 60's" is pretty bad.
But, anyways...here I go
PS...if this is the first post youve seen me make in a while, its because I took you off my friends list.
Why is it that America is so hung on whats "right?" It seems a lot of people do/say things not because they mean it but because its expected. Example: You hurt someone with the intention of harming them and afterward you say sorry. Now, why the hell would you do it if you were sorry? Its obvious you dont mean it.
Now, the argument of "Well, at the time I meant it but now that I think about it, Im sorry" Fuck that. Its just a horrible way to look past your responsibilities. Saying sorry seems to give the victim a sense of forgiveness. But, lets look at the fact. You were hurt in some way. Is that ok? No. Maybe Im being too hard, but, lets face it...today, people are all about themselves.
So, Im going down the street with my friend Ryan and his girlfriend. She is driving. Someone lets us into the lane in Hartford rush hour traffic. Thats a rare occasion right there. Michelle just drives. She doesnt thank the person who let her in. I mentioned this and she barked back "Well, if I did that, no one would thank me." What kind mentality is that? Just because someone doesnt show gratuity, doesnt mean every person is like that.
This is a major reason why most Americans are rude. We often associate one persons actions with every other person. Example: A business owner hires an older lady. She is slower then most workers and often loses money. The business owner fires her and vows never to hire an eldery person again. Is that fair? No. I know pleanty of 65+ year old people who are just fit and able as the average 35 year old. I think this mentality is just a sad way to catagorzie people.
On the subject of placing people in categories, Im sick of people asking me if Im into "black or white" women. thats a pretty shallow question. I dont think the skin color matters. Its the person. Another thing is when people describe someone like this "Oh, did you see that black guy walk over there?" Thats fucked. You never hear someone go "Hey, did you see that white lady fall?" Why is it that people point out black people, but not white? Is it a way for society to sub-consiously condesend black people? Who knows?
Im gonna take a break..Im gonna update soon