Thought-Stirring Post: Shame & Self-Blame

Mar 21, 2011 20:24

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One of the many tools abusers use against those being abused is the use of shaming, or making one feel ashamed of what happened to them, sometimes as though they-the survivor-was the one responsible to the mistreatment against them. Other times, the feelings of shame come from the ones survivors confide in about their mistreatment by using victim-blaming, which may further convince the survivor that they could have somehow stopped the mistreatment if only they had done something differently.
  • Have you ever experienced feelings of shame and/or self-blame? What made you feel this way?
  • How do you think shame and victim-blaming differ
  • What are some ways that you ease the pain of shame and/or self-blame?


shame, thought stirring post

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