Jan 16, 2005 23:28
so uhh about that last entry. I spent some time with kelsey today and we talked about some stuff. Apparently she's NOT dating someone else, BUT she doesn't want our friendship to change(we've been good friends for about 5 years), and that's why she doesn't want us to have a relationship......? I mean, I don't want to lose our friendship, but being more than just friends was a million times better HANDS DOWN.
The ball biter for me is that I like to become good friends with someone BEFORE I feel like I really want a commited relationship with them. I'm totally not into the "wanna go on a date? by the way my name's rory" thing. Maybe I'm just not outgoing enough....or too damn picky.....or both.
SO please can I get some feedback on this retarded subject:
WOULD YOU
a) prefer to REALLY know someone before you started seeing them?
OR WOULD YOU
b)get sick of waiting, and opt for the next guy/girl that seems nice enough and wastes no time trying to hook up with you (even though you hardly know them)