Don't understand you.

[_soulseeker]

So I'm still left confused.. probably more than before. He called me last night which was totally unexepted. We talked for awhile too. And he actually stayed home last night.. he NEVER stays home on friday nights

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Re: maybe he's pullin your chain.

[_soulseeker]

Yeah I totally agree. Maybe he really isn't interested in me after all. I'm just so confused cause in the beginning (this was in my earlier post), we talked on the phone from like 10:30pm till 5am.. and that's the time he wakes up to get ready for work. So he basically got no sleep jus to talk to me. From then on we talked like every day. He would usually call me and if he didn't, I'd call him. And like on Valentine's Day (which was like 4 days after I met him), he surprised me with a dozen roses and a teddy bear cause he remembered on the phone the night before how much I liked gettin flowers. It was such a big surprise cause we barely knew each other. And we spent like the night just chillen n talking. Nothin more. So it was nice cause he seemed like such a gentleman. Everythin was goin good till one week he got really sick or somethin.. and then like we didn't talk for a week. And then he started callin me again.. and now he jus calls me like every other day or something. I duno.. it's strange now. He still talks to me the same way when he first met me though. Oh and yeah I know for sure he's not the shy type. He's pretty confident. But when it comes to askin me out, it takes him for ever. Even on Valentine's Day he asked me several times.. "sooo you're not gonna do nething today?" And I totally didn't get the hint that he wanted to do something.. then finally at the end of our conversation he was like.. "do u wanna see a movie or something?" So I dunno.. he confuses me. But you're right.. if he really was interested, he would put more effort. In the beginning he did, but now it feels like it's only coming from me. K wow, sorry I wrote like a fricken novel. Anyway thanks for the advice.. it really helped :) It's good to have a guy's perspective.

Re: maybe he's pullin your chain.

[_soulseeker]

Yeah I'm starting to get very impatient with him!! It doesn't seem like it's going anywhere, so I'm just not going to bother :)