i don't like her. i tried to think of a better way to put it but she acts like a typical jerk off guy the way she casually talks about how "unhappy" she is and how she wants these "characteristics" in people that don't exist and it's all bullshit because you're the one sitting there with your heart open and broken. she is an insensitive little bitch the way i see things, and you know i always see the worst in people, but really, someone has got to point these things out in a non subtle way. anyway, i wish i could make you stop loving her but i can't and neither can you and it's just going to take time, especially because she is so thick headed. i mean how can you talk about these things like your current boyfriend with someone is who in love with you? there are rules i think, that everyone knows, and she is breaking them. i love you keep your chin up and expect my letter next week!
ps. i am sorry if i offended you by calling her a bitch but.....i can't take it back ha ha ha
haha don't worry, you are certainly not the first. i'm not offended but i guess my biased view disagrees. the conversation got so much worse from your point of view "jennyy867: be honest | the girl: fine i still love you ok? | jennyy867: but why tell me you dont is what i dont get | the girl: because i can't be with you for whatever reason | the girl: and why give you another thing to make it worse? | jennyy867 (3:47:03 AM): i still dont believe that
it would be great if i didn't know how awesome she could be when she wasn't doing this crap, huh? but thanks for being honest - i really do appreciate it and need to hear it. seriously
also- i'm WICKED excited for my lettttter, i just hope it gets here before wednesday because then i leave school for weeks haha.
I don't know what's happened recently so this may not be the most educated advice.
You guys do seem like you would be great together. Not gonna lie. But how many other girls are out there that you would be great with? There are a lot of girls out there that would love nothing more than to ride horses and play with dogs and all the great things you would be so happy doing. And they won't bring you down like this. I know it's hard, but it really seems like meg is more a source of conflict than happiness. Also, she doesn't seem to really take your feelings into account, at least not in this conversation. Why would she even bring up this guy if she knows you still have feelings for her, let alone go into detail about their relationship? And I'm not saying "get over it," because it's not that easy, but try to move on. That's what I would do. Or try to do.
Just don't think she's the only girl you'll ever be capable of loving.
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anyway, i wish i could make you stop loving her but i can't and neither can you and it's just going to take time, especially because she is so thick headed. i mean how can you talk about these things like your current boyfriend with someone is who in love with you? there are rules i think, that everyone knows, and she is breaking them.
i love you keep your chin up and expect my letter next week!
ps. i am sorry if i offended you by calling her a bitch but.....i can't take it back ha ha ha
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it would be great if i didn't know how awesome she could be when she wasn't doing this crap, huh? but thanks for being honest - i really do appreciate it and need to hear it. seriously
also- i'm WICKED excited for my lettttter, i just hope it gets here before wednesday because then i leave school for weeks haha.
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You guys do seem like you would be great together. Not gonna lie. But how many other girls are out there that you would be great with? There are a lot of girls out there that would love nothing more than to ride horses and play with dogs and all the great things you would be so happy doing. And they won't bring you down like this. I know it's hard, but it really seems like meg is more a source of conflict than happiness. Also, she doesn't seem to really take your feelings into account, at least not in this conversation. Why would she even bring up this guy if she knows you still have feelings for her, let alone go into detail about their relationship? And I'm not saying "get over it," because it's not that easy, but try to move on. That's what I would do. Or try to do.
Just don't think she's the only girl you'll ever be capable of loving.
And good luck.
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